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  1. Kealoha

    Am I overreacting?

    Thank you. I appreciate the way you worded that, it helped me better phrase what I wanted. The only reason I posted is that I know how I am about lies. I can be...over the top mad if I find out someone is lying...even about the smallest things. I'll give a chance to come clean, but if you...
  2. Kealoha

    Am I overreacting?

    So last night, before I went to bed, I went outside to kiss the hubby goodnight. He smokes out there and often takes his lap top with him. I didn't sneak up or anything. The door is not quiet lol, but he jumped. I saw that he was on Adult Friend Finder and said, "Oh, did you make an account on...
  3. Kealoha

    Movies that would have been better with a poly ending.

    Lol I also was going to say Harry Potter! Hermione obviously loves them both throughout the series and the boys already care about each other. I think Jean Grey is powerful enough to handle both of her X-men. :) I mostly watch anime (and read lots of manga) though, and there are actually many...
  4. Kealoha

    Weight loss support

    Wow! Looks like there are lots of hard-working people here! I feel inspired really. I would love to take exotic dancing if I ever have the chance! Or belly dancing. I used to do hula before my youngest was born. Diets never worked for me. I actually do not eat that much because, although I enjoy...
  5. Kealoha

    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    I feel your pain. I had a fight with my husband not to long ago about this very thing! Turns out, he didn't ignore me...he was avoiding the whole thing because he had a feeling about what it was n knew we didn't have enough cash to fix it... Anyway, take a deep breath, and talk things over with...
  6. Kealoha

    What did you do today that made you smile?

    Watched my 3 year old streak across the backyard singing "I'm nekkid, nekkid, Naaaaakeeeeed!"
  7. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Wow TL4everu2, she sounds like her brain is still in high school! Asking you to pass messages to other guys? Asking your wife to pass a message to you? ...and if it's on-line, I wouldn't buy the "didn't see you online" because you can always leave a message. Whatever, sounds like you're better...
  8. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Awww...*hugs* Don't be sad! I'm sure you'll find what you're looking for! You know, it's rare to find one person who wants the same thing that you do...even rarer to find a couple! It just makes the one(s) you find that much more precious! *laughs* It would almost be the opposite with my...
  9. Kealoha

    I don't identify

    lol, Gotta love the parents who ask what they did wrong when they find out that you are different! It's amazing that you felt close enough to your mother to share with her. I can't even imagine saying anything like this to other members of our family: my grandmother who raised me, or my...
  10. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Yup, totally do not identify with this girl at all. I do know people like that, unfortunately. It might be nice to have court side seats at games and limo rides and diamonds (Yes, this is someone I know), but it's not really anything that anyone should brag about...and lying to these guys is...
  11. Kealoha

    poly books and stories (also films) for children

    Okay, I'm going to have to check out some of these! The only one I've read is Six Dinner Sid. It is a favorite in our house! Love that book! Okay, I'm going to have to say that I absolutely loved the ending. lol Spoiler to follow, so if you don't want to know, don't read. (spoiler) My...
  12. Kealoha

    Self Esteem & Relationships

    How important is self esteem in the creation of healthy, loving relationships? I believe it is crucial in any relationship, and for life in general. I've missed out on so much due to lack of self-esteem and fear. I agree with Red Pepper that "healthy relationships are also essential in...
  13. Kealoha

    I think maybe I'm poly...

    These are exactly the reasons I'm here. My situation may be different, but it's still nice to have a place where you know someone will understand where you are coming from. Most people I have met are very traditional, so when I am having problems or just need someone to talk to...I feel pretty...
  14. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    The funniest thing about this discussion is that it's nothing new. This is all stuff I can remember talking about in high school. The girls that some guys consider a tease...yet guys still take them out and buy them presents. *shrugs* I don't know what's going on inside anyone's heads, so I...
  15. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    *laughs* Ahhh...the problems of not being able to hear someone's voice or facial expressions. Relax, I wasn't angrily replying...or trying to criticize, just people do think this way...the putting out part, not the one or the other comment. After all, there are people out there that believe if...
  16. Kealoha

    Hobbies

    Right on! ...and if I didn't get any during that week all hell would break loose! *laughs*
  17. Kealoha

    Online Dating… OKCupid... what a trip. What works for you?

    Wow, I wonder which category I'd fit into...Guess it depends who's sorting. Anyway, why should anyone have to put out if they don't want to? I remember this party I went to for an on-line friend. I "knew" a few of the people from online, knew what they looked like...but guess what...Out of...
  18. Kealoha

    Hobbies

    *shrugs* Too each his own. Some people enjoy savoring gourmet food, some junk food, it doesn't make eating any less necessary. The approach and attitude could make it hobby I guess. I guess I don't think of it for myself that way. :) Personally, I enjoy variety...and yes, I enjoy a hard and...
  19. Kealoha

    Hello =^.^=

    Mahalo. It means so much to know that someone understands. I was really doubting myself and my communication skills, but I'm still trying and still talking...hoping someone will eventually hear and understand what I'm saying and accept me the way I am...instead of trying to make me give up...
  20. Kealoha

    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    Honestly? I'm not very good coming up with these things and usually just use my middle name (the name I prefer to go by). My name is also Hawaiian. I am part Hawaiian, and wanted my user name to be Hawaiian. However, I figure this site is all about the aloha, so why not?
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