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I still get frustrated when I think of people that aren't like me. I know it's silly to get mad, but I often wonder if I'll find others that feel as I do. People that aren't so "normal." People get hurt too easily and I often forget that.

This is how I feel. I want the men in my life to freely find love with others, if they feel the need. The man that broke things off with me knew this. He told me he was "too jealous of another man being with me," and that he would probably "kill another man just to have me for himself." Yes, he...

It's been about 24hrs. I'm being a total teenager about it all. My boyfriend just listened to an all-out vent fest about me being canned. We both agree that it is for the best, but it still hurts. I'm glad he's strong enough to deal with my polyness. Hopefully I can find someone else that's just...

I usually tell myself that I'm great. I have days where I fell a bit less than, but they don't last long. I also spend time on something personal. I walk my dog or work on my models. I also read lots. Reading takes my mind off any bad mojo I may be feeling. I do have good friends. They can...

Well then, I really don't care about what it is called. Words are just words. I wanted us to be happy and that's not going to happen now. So, I will be moving on. People spend so much time trying to figure out what word best describes their relationships. It takes away from what's really...

Vodkafan, it's nice to know there are others out there. I am not closed off to any type of love. I welcome it all. I do, however, have an idea of what I'd like my life to be like. It just so happens to resemble a polyandry-type relationship. I'm not sure if it is because of the way I was raised...

I never mentioned polygamy. I have no problems with my men seeing other women. My primary is involved with an awesome lady at the moment and I love her. I just thought that it was funny that some men I meet often see nothing wrong with dating multiple women, yet these same men can not handle a...

You're right. He was honest. He told me from the start years ago that he didn't like the fact that I wanted more than one partner. So I can't be mad at him. I'm actually proud. He stood up and told me what I needed to hear. He's all grown up now. It's time for me to stop messing up his head and...

Where should I fish?

I got dumped last night. I feel down and confused. My second boyfriend decided it was too much to handle. He told me that he could not share me and he would get himself into trouble if I ever came to visit him. He does not want to only spend a few days with me at a time and then "send me off to...

Thanks so much for the feedback. I know I need to do the right thing and tell Tate. Also, GS, the prenup idea is something that I totally forgot about, so thanks for that. I will need to take care of it this week. Bryant and I are committed to each other, and ready to take our relationship...

Hi folks. I haven't posted in a while, but I have been reading posts. I figured I didn't need to start a topic unless I really needed some outside views. Well, here's my question. I have heart failure. No worries, I'm working on getting better. My primary (call him Bryant) and I have been...

I like them all, some more than others. I had a pit before. His name is Babu. He now lives with my ex. I have a hound mix now. His name is Porter. I've always worked around animals. Dogs are my favorite. More than anything I like well behaved dogs.

I love the name Caleb. I have loved it since the show American Gothic came out years ago. The lead on the show was named Caleb. I had a crush on him. It's just a strong name. I'm a girl with a very unusual first name (it's a male name in most countries). I used to want to name my first born...

I'm dealing with this a bit myself.. I don't have any advice... I'm sorry. It is very hard when the person you want to spend time with can not understand poly stuff. Or if they can, they are not comfortable with it. Hopefully she means what she says about being friends... and you guys can spend...

Sweet!!!

It's strange how so many folks have this problem... maybe I should just print out business cards that say "call me, I like you". If they call I can explain it to them... silly. It would never work :) I just wish it were simple.

That's the thing SchrodingersCat... I don't want a relationship. He's a friend. I just wanted to kiss him honestly. But I'm sure he didn't know. He probably thouhgt that I wanted to add him to my "collection" of men. Ha! Yeah.. he's been scared away. I should have just not said anything... he...

I totally agree w/ you CielDuMatin...I feel like I want to get it out there... now of course in certain settings (work, some school things, etc) I keep to my self... but if I like someone I am not afraid to tell them. Thanks to you guys on this site and some really good friends and my awesome...

btw... thought this was funny. I was randomly reading my horoscope for the day... my daily flirt on yahoo said this: It turns out that not all of your people are on board with your latest scheme. It's important to wait until you can cajole them into behaving. funny... I'm sure the friend I...