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My partners other partner is exhibiting some negative behaviors. -posting in a visibly public place her feeling regarding our hinge especially the bad things. -publicly announcing to be monogamous and wanting "all of him" or she is walking away. - I also know she has said some fairly negative...

This is what I have been doing. I have altered my behavior greatly to not be misleading, and I am very clear about my intentions whenever things start to shift.

Just a thought after reading the movie thread, and listening to the radio all day. Two that immediately come to mind Dilemma by Nelly Lips of an Angel by Hinder :) What about you?

LoL! My husband goes for girls exactly like me. It is uncanny. I go for men almost exactly like him. I mean I like variety, but the one I like the most right now is very much like him, even in build. You now except that DH is a complete anti-socialite and R is VERY outgoing. I tend to also go...

The first, and it's a big one, I have been asked "So what is my place in all of this?". They treat it as if the only options are fuckbuddy of friend. Some are okay with that, but the one I want I think feels like he would be second class. That just isn't true! I want to give my lovers equal...

Okay I have been short on time to write, and a lot has happened this week. But it is all very interesting! lol! When S cancelled last Saturday I was done. I did give it one more chance, he again cancelled, blah blah he said he was sorry for being a jerk blah blah not worth my time, come back to...

So he cancelled. I suspect it's probably some kind of intimacy aversion. 4/5 times he's had an excuse. Let's see, helping grandma, sick cats twice, and a migraine. I don't think I am putting anymore energy into it regardless. Yay me, I get to go out alone!!!!! :-/

Thanks Kevin! Honestly, don't want a relationship with J ever again. Luckily all went well today and his only reaction was "Good luck with that". Whew! bullet dodged. :)

I do agree with that. It is a persons responsiblity to act appropriately themselves. Sometimes I allow myself to be objectified by my husband, but he knows it is a gift to fulfill his desires. Making him happy is something I WANT and CHOOSE to do. He does not ask for it, but graciously accepts...

1. Do those "pangs" ever go away completely? So far, I have had no pangs with my primary, but we are very new to this. I did have major jealousy issues before we were out poly to eachother, only because he was emotionally intimate with another woman and in denial. It wasn't the relationship...

Hmm, I haven't read everything yet, so sorry if I am repeating what someone else has said. This is how I feel about it however. I'll start with how I have explained it to the friends that DO know about me. If any of you have more than one child, you can probably relate to how you felt during...

lmao yeah, but sadly it's growing on me. He said he's going to put the sexy back in boink. Then I started thinking about Justin Timberlake and everything gets fuzzy from there... :D

I kinda wanted to journal about this anyway, but I am still closeted, and this way I can have feedback too! I will warn however, I am TERRIBLE at keeping blogs and journals so there might be a cliffhanger lol! I am going out with S tomorrow night. This will be my first time seeing him in person...

Yes, but many choose to be objectify themselves. Some even enjoy it. So when that is the case, in the end pornography is just another sex toy. :) I say as respectfully as I can because I am not an argumentitive type person lol.

I have been setting boundaries. I am probably going to not share as much as I used to since that seems to provoke him. So far so good, although he abruptly stopped messaging me today when I got on him about saying things he wouldn't want his wife to see.

Pretty good, and you?

DH and I enjoy some porn. but not much. I see it as a respectable industry as long as all involved are consensual. Heck I sell adult toys, who would I be to judge the porn industry? lol!

Very good point. I shall remember that if it comes up.

teehee. That's great. He asked about my date with S this weekend, said more suggestive things. He claimed them not to be suggestive. Whatever. I told him I could no longer share with him if I can't be sure he won't start being suggestive again. He stopped.

KM - Yeah I know there's a grain of truth to it, thats why at that point I took a break from talking to him. And I understand the emotional infidelity. DH did that to me once and I was pretty furious with him. He would never admit it. (I wonder if he would now?). At the time we were NOT out...