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I have. It was hard to say, because I really don't want to hurt him, but I think that whole 'avoiding saying difficult things because we don't want to hurt the people we care about' is a large part of how we got into this mess, so I am trying to work on both being more open and honest, even when...

Argh, I had typed out this long response, and it got eaten. >.< Suffice it to say, I really appreciate the replies and suggestions. They have all been helpful. Thank you very much. I think Sparklepop hit on something. I am feeling claustrophobic and resistant to the thought of giving in and...

@SchrodingersCat- We've been trying, exactly what you describe there...for months now. The little touches, being tentatively affectionate, doing nice little things for each other, little gifts, trying to set aside time to spend with each other. He seems to think things are fine, or should be...

You're absolutely right. That's something I'm working hard on. I know it's not fair to him, and it's a negative personality trait I really don't want to have either. I'm finding that talking to him, asking the right questions, getting more info about what's really going on, as well as talking...

I've been in a poly situation for about 3 years now. It's had its up and downs, but lately it's been extremely difficult for all three of us and I am at the point of admitting I am in over my head and need help. I've called about counseling for myself. I think I'm pretty depressed over things...