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I've been in two MFM vees. One was polyfi with my gf and her other bf, and one was with a married woman and her husband. In both of these I saw the other guy once in a while and while I was never completely comfortable around them I was never jealous of the time they spent together. I think it's...

yep Having been in a V with a woman and her other bf I can say it works if you make it work. It lasted a long time.

^This. Can the gear. Be affectionate and if it leads to sex, okay. Fingers and tongues work just fine and you don't need to make a production out of it. Also,, sounds you both need to be more assertive about what you want from each other.

That sounds so familiar. The poster who said you won't get as much of her attention as you would in a monogamous relationship is so right. And it won't be her husband, it will be her kids. As long as you're willing to be around the kids and do things with them you'll see a lot more of her...

Yes, this is the place. You're very lucky to have a best friend who is willing to share him with you. I think this is the way it most often happens - it just happens, rather than it being a planned thing. Best of luck to you all, and this is the place to get support for all the ups and downs of...

The baby is whichever man's who wants to step up and say it's his and put his name on the birth certificate. Some people adopt children and some people use sperm donors. There's no difference.

Well, living in Texas, my first piece of advice would be to get the hell out of Texas.

For him to attempt to control your feelings is really bad news. He must be really insecure and conservative at the same time (not an unusual combination). I would say there wasn't much future in a relationship like that anyway. You would certainly get tired of someone owning you like that...

All three of these things are true.

Hello, and welcome aboard. You'll find a lot of really useful information here. There's really no orthodoxy, just the knowledge you can love more than one person and the security and generosity to be okay with the person you love doing the same. There is a lot of terminology that's been...

I agree with Dag. This isn't polyamory, this the end of a marriage and you're in the middle of it. Absolutely DON'T move in with them. There's a lot anger and hurt on her part and you're going to be the object of it as much as he is. She'll be trapped in a home where everything and everybody...

Sounds unanimous

Quick! Look! There's a unicorn! Seriously, happy hunting.

Let's see: beer tasting, poker and shopping for a boyfriend (or maybe a girlfriend). You sound like a helluva lady. Lots of luck to you, I'm sure it'll work out.

Is this a problem with sperm quality or egg quality? If you've had miscarriages, it's most likely a problem with your eggs or your ability to carry to term. If you want to try different sperm, however, I think you should start doing something about it soon as your prospects get smaller after age...

IME people are either basically okay with sharing a lover or they're into the whole monogamy ownership shtick. If TJ breaks out in hives over the prospect of DK sleeping with you I don't see much future there somewhere.

I think that's the biggest change to make: to give up ownership of another person and not be afraid of others in your relationship.

I've got a bad feeling about this. I'm hearing he's getting what he wants, and she's not getting what she wants, and neither are you. Is this right? For your relationship to work you all have to be getting at least most of what you want and it doesn't seem to be the case. Maybe it would help...

Yeah, it's possible. Just keep trying. Hope it happens for you.

Yup! But as TN said everybody's different and I've heard of stranger thins. By all means go as fast as you feel comfortable and tell them your feelings about being afraid of wanting them too much too soon. Nothing's hurt by getting to know them as friends for a while, and if you talk it over...