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Well, the first thing is don't be diplomatic. Be blunt and specific. Hey, it's a website right? By the way you express yourself I can tell you're a writer. Bore the earth's stones - I have to use that! We all have people we love who are far away, we can't get to or are otherwise unavailable to...

There was also something about the asst. pastor having an affair with a lady of the church and his wife finding out about it and telling him to "get it out of his system." I would love to have been a fly on the wall.

Mm Hmm. I know that feeling. I went through it at the beginning of my relationship and a helpful person led me to understand C a little better. Some bi people aren't a mixture of hetero- and same sex attraction all the time. They go back and forth. With my fiancee it's like throwing a switch and...

Damn, sounds like you're getting totally discounted. I'd be mad as hell.

My fiancee and I have been in a poly relationship since the beginning four years ago. We just didn't know what it was called. Her family is conservative fundamentalist and wouldn't approve of us sleeping together much less her having a girlfriend from the time she was in high school. C is back...

What you're proposing to do really isn't that unusual. I know another couple who were virgins when they got married. A few years in felt like she needed some more experience and was able to get it. She got her experience and he knows that she's not sitting around wondering what it would have...

Yes, I've had experience with meth, coke, risky sex addictions. Life with an addictive person isn't easy. Feel free to PM me if you want to talk privately.

"This is exactly the issue in my opinion. People trying to police their fellows instead of living their own lives is the root of a lot of relationship drama. " Well, setting limits to what is acceptable to you isn't policing someone else, just giving them the choice of respecting your limits or...

I think what you're feeling is entirely reasonable in your circumstances. And R, too. I've been the the primary when a new secondary came into the picture and what both of you are feeling is normal. The fact that you can see H only once a month probably means the "new" will take a lot longer to...

If you have always been together on making financial decisions I think you should have been included in her taking out a loan for his truck. I would have felt discounted in this situation as well and I understand how you would. You have a right to your feelings and I think you should take it...

I think that level of condescension is uncalled-for.

That shouldn't be too hard.

I agree with this. It takes two to make a baby. He has equal responsibility both in preventing pregnancy and taking care of what happens later.

I'm not offended. I admire the way you took my comments and answered them politely and informatively. I have a high regard for your intellect.

I apologize, too. I understand better now.

C and J met in high school and got crushes on each other right away. After a year of soul searching and doubts they consummated their relationship in bed. They “dated” on and off through high school and after. They worked on a horse farm together for a while with some school in between. Fast...

LOL. Really, tho, a lot of lesbians have reason to be angry and it has nothing to with not getting semen.

Hi, I'm Steven (my real name, incidentally). I'm a straight male, 28 soon to be married to C, a 24 y/o bisexual polyamorous woman. I'm a lay counselor and logistics organizer and delighted to find this site. I hope I can add something as valuable as what I've learned. My story is a happy one...

Welcome! What brings you to a polyamory forum? Are you in a relationship seeking to add another, or single and looking to get in one?

I didn't jump to a conclusion, just a cautionary word. IME the love part comes first, then the inclusion into the relationship. Although there are times when a threesome develops into something more, I don't think it happens often. (no, I'm not suggesting that I think you're going to go out and...