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I knew what you meant :-) Great sense of humor though.....

Twins are great....they're 2 yrs old now, and full of energy. I may find a partner in while, I'm currently 9 months pregnant and content with my hubby. I'm really into being a good mommy and wife. But as time progresses and the kids get older, who knows. Thank you for asking Dingedheart. :-)

I read your post and just wanted to say, I admire your strength and thoughtfulness. Personally, I have decided that I am not going to compromise my happiness/peace of mind, no matter what. I will give only what I can give that doesn't lead to misery. I will walk away if I have to. I've decided...

I want to address your current time splitting arrangement.....it sound very fair. One thing I will say is that me and my hubby agreed that we would give things time.....not act on impulse. Like my hubby hopes i can give this next try 3-6 months before I reevalutae. For you, for example, right...

PolyGamegirl - yeah, I am surprised we are still here too at times when I think about how bad things were for me. The reason we are still together is mostly because of him.....he fought to make things right between us again. Fought to undo what he had done. MindfulAgony - thank you for your...

Plus, it is important to me to accept him for who he is, not what he is conformed to becoming. We'll see though :-)

I wanted to add that I am no expert...this is very new to me too. That said, the fact that our primary relationship survived one of his girlfriends also gives me enpowerment towards security and trust, that nothing can destroy us, but us. I saw that he was able to love me, please me, be my...

Well, I went through something very similar....and I am currently a mono with a poly who has been given the ok to find a girlfriend. I, in a turn of events, found myself plunged into a non-monogamous marriage. My husband being poly. I believe I am more of a mono myself. Husband maintained...

Thanks for the welcome Dingedheart... You are right I was miserable then...extremely miserable (WITH happy moments mixed in). It was SO MUCH learning that my husband had built a sexual/intimate relationship with another woman, S, behind my back and I had NO IDEA. We had married with vows of...

Hello everyone, You may or may not remember, but a little over a year ago I joined this forum. My husband revealed that he was having an affair...had been involved with S for some time. We had just had twin boys a year prior to his confession so our relationship was definitely strained. To...

Good question. I don't know... We really did have some kind of connection. Or maybe it was an unhealthy sense of connection. I was somewhat attracted to Bess, although I won't say that I am bi. She is very knowledgeable and we share a lot of the same interests. She is much like me, so we enjoyed...

NYCindie, yes, Bo and I are talking a lot. I found that he really wants to save our marriage, and that he definitely loves me, despite his actions. I am working hard to rebuild my trust in him, and he is working hard, too. Only time will tell, though. But I think we have reached a point where we...

NYCindie, thank you for your words. Bess's posts are the reason I decided to end things. After talking to her the night of her posting on my thread, I felt guilty for the fact that I was hurting her, and that Bo had decided to back off a bit with her. I didn’t want to come between them, even if...

Redpepper, to make a long story as short as I can, I did not decide to quit on her alone. I decided that I needed a break from both of them. Bo decided to let her go. He chose to work to keep me and him together. I was very down this past weekend. I am very hurt by the lies, the lack of...

Hello Everyone, Its been about a week since I last posted. Well things have greatly changed between LoveisEvol, Crunchymama, and me. After reading her thread and her post here, I began feeling very guilty about the boundaries Bo and I put into place. I also knew that I was not ready to lift...

NYCindie, I know you weren't suggesting a debate. I was directing that to LoveisEvol (Bo) and Crunchymama (Bess). Not that they would. So maybe I shouldn't have stated that at all.

Re NYCindie's suggestion, it might be good to combine. This way we'd have mediators with experience and education. But I don't want this to be a place to argue!

Well...I am NOT a liar. That is one thing I am not. I am confused as to what emotional abuse Crunchymama speaks of. I am not an abusive person, and I honestly don't know what she is referencing. We have very limited contact/communication, but we all know it is hard to see things through...

I agree :)

Man, Neonkaos, you have just taught me a world-life lesson.