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    I am lonely and can't make opposite sex friends whatsoever

    From the sounds of it, it's mostly a simple matter of the places you're looking to make friends at. Workplaces vary, but it's certainly not uncommon for associations to end the moment one walks out the door. Classes are, well, a time when they are focused on learning, rather than making...
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    Brand new to "quad relationship"

    For now, just kind of roll with it. Also, some may consider your group not quite a quad, as there doesn't seem to be a commitment there between the four of you. I wouldn't get too caught up on labels though. Enjoy what you have, make the most of it, and see where it takes you :)
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    Is thin the only sexy?

    I think we're pretty much on the same page, Tise. Perhaps I wasn't clear that it's the interior (the mind) that is driving the exterior (the body) that determines sexy for me.
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    Gaming and Gamers

    Like aLABiMCpl, my gaming started back in the dawn of time. Pong, VIC20, TI99/A, handheld football, Commodore 64, Colleco, Intellivision, Pac-man, Battlezone, and the like. Programmed several by hand from magazines, experienced the early days of pirating software, wasted tons of quarters, one of...
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    Why do you use the online name that you use?

    I've been using Avatar since...oh...around 95 when Skye and I got married. My previous alias didn't quite fit the married life so I chose another, which I'd come across in a book. F2F I think it was called.
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    Married Is as Married Does?

    I would ask why are contract or institution the only options when others are available which would possibly be more fitting? As it is, in its current form, I feel marriage is both contract and institution, depending on perspective and those involved.
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    No longer the unicorn

    Thank you for the good reading material :-) I hope your events go well, whatever you decide on guests. Myself, I'd take both, assuming that most won't notice more than you having your two best friends along.
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    Tapatalk

    Thanks!
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    NRE Guys?

    From what you have shared with us, it sounds pretty normal. Intense shared experiences tend to create a special connection between those involved, and is fairly common. Most often, this phenomenon is noted in survivors of traumatic experiences, but isn't limited to that.
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    Relationship Troubles - Advice?

    For those that are unsure how to ignore users on this forum, here is a simple set of instructions. 1.) Click on the user's name 2.) Select to view their public profile 3.) On their profile page, click User Lists 4.) Select to add user to your ignore list 5.) Confirm that you would like to...
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    Married for a long time, starting to be poly

    Has it been considered that perhaps things can simply stay as they are, with you and lover talking online and the very occasional meeting IRL? Or is there some pressure to get the relationship moving forward. If the the later, moving forward to what? I have to agree that your best chances of...
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    Tapatalk

    Any chance we could request compatibility with the Tapatalk app for mobile devices? (http://tapatalk.com/activate_tapatalk.php)
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    Is thin the only sexy?

    I have to give an emphatic "No." Sexy is, first and foremost, a state of mind, a way of holding one's self, a way of guiding the body language, the manner in which that mind interacts with others. The body itself is mostly irrelevant. Tsie's response is an excellent example. The body comes...
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    New to the board, looking for community

    Yup, Buns has been around too, reading, like me.
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    Converting from lurker

    LOL Sorry! Fixed! :)
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    Converting from lurker

    Okay, since Skye has already done a wonderful job, I think I'll steal her intro and edit. Hi there. I am a male that is part of a quad with my wife, Skye, of 17 years and another married couple. We have been on and off quadded for the past two+ years, but have remained best friends throughout...
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    New to the board, looking for community

    Heh heh Thanks. We're all here, though only just now creating accounts. :)
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    New to the board, looking for community

    Well, well, well. Looks like you're going to make me come out of lurking mode, eh Lover? :p
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