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My best friend is a firm monogamist, and I love her to death. She happens to disagree with some of my lifestyle choices, but she's still my friend, and when it comes to key issues, like honesty, loyalty, and friendship, we're on the same page. If she thinks my behavior is slutty, that's fine...

Valiant boa defenders, unite! I don't know what my issues with boas are, but I really have this odd dislike of them. I love burlesque, but I loathe boas. I may have to look into higher-end boas and see if this is unfounded. I love burlesque, fishnets, corsets, and stuff like that. And, Ivy, I...

Being 3 is incredibly hard - You're old enough to be aware of all the limits and expectations being imposed on you. It's no fun. :( It sounds like you guys are doing the best you can with being a young couple. Kudos. :)

Do boas really arouse anyone?

Depends on the animal or person. I'd choose my cat over any person; if the house was on fire and I couldn't get her out, I'd stay there and die with her. She didn't ask for me to take her in, and I feel that level of commitment. And if that makes me crazy, I'll just have to be crazy.

Both of those images are far more flattering than how women who have multiple partners are. I'd rather be called a pimp than a whore.

Dating is hard whether you're dating as a single person or a couple. Unfortunately, sometimes people meet us and they decide we're not their cup of tea. Such is life, bud.

You say your health issues have triggered body image issues. There are people I know who have colostomy bags who have fabulous sex lives. I know a lot of GI and GU issues can cause disturbances in body image, but I assure you, there are lots of people who are tender and understanding. As...

Oh, girl. You know what they call women who use the pull-out method? Mothers. Get thee to Planned Parenthood. Get an Implanon or the pill or something... I really like the Implanon. A baby is a terrific responsibility, and as much as you might love a child, you should wait until you're in...

Real friends respect your other relationships. And I agree with Jericka and VA; you shouldn't "make" your girlfriend talk to this guy when she doesn't want to. It's horrendous.

Welcome. Are you me? Works with kids, pan/bi woman in her 20's (late still counts), thinking about a baby (though I have so much farther to go with my own career before I squeeze one out). Jeez, how odd, except I'm unattached.

I'd entertain what you're saying, but this guy is piling on extra relationships while his kids are literally screaming for his attention. If your kids have unresolved issues, you don't look for additional relationships and confusion. That makes him a not nice person. I'd run.

There's your answer. Maybe his kids are "li'l bastards" because he half-asses relationships, like wanting you to come over and "cuddle in the basement." I work with children professionally, and I want to tell you when multiple children are behaving like jerks, their parents usually are jerks...

Sounds like a nice day, Kyle. I'm not gluten intolerant, but I try to avoid it in excess as well.

Not well today - Felt sick. Fortunately, not working today, so I'm just trying to ease off to sleep. Just trying to find my place on here. :)

You refer to him as "our" boyfriend; if she won't do it for you, would he entertain doing it for you and showing her how it's done?

You sound like a lovely woman. Welcome.

Hi! Good to meet you!

The tiger, most certainly. ;)

Don't be plastered. There's nothing worse than a drunken confession of feelings, except when it's meant to wrangle a threesome. That's my $0.02.