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  1. LotusesandRoses

    Hello, Hello, Hello

    Thanks, Kyle. I would say I'm fairly focused due to knowing what I don't want, the same old routines and limitations day in and day out, whether at work or at play.
  2. LotusesandRoses

    First Poly date

    Not where I live in the south. It's assumed you begin and finish business with one person, serious or not, before moving on to someone else.
  3. LotusesandRoses

    A few questions from a concerned monogamist husband...

    This guy that's after her sounds like a creep. That's coming from someone interested in the D/s lifestyle for over a decade. A poly D should never seek to damage anyone else's mono relationship, which is exactly what he's doing. I think before she (or you) explore this lifestyle, a...
  4. LotusesandRoses

    I feel like I am going down instead of forward.

    What's his native language? And where do you guys live?
  5. LotusesandRoses

    Hello, Hello, Hello

    I'm a single poly woman in her late 20's. I'm a professional, and working on another degree so I can move up in my field - I'm very busy and I don't date much, and I find a lot of my spare time and energies goes into helping my aging parents. I found in my early 20's it was very hard to have...
  6. LotusesandRoses

    I feel like I am going down instead of forward.

    You're not "the bad one." The hard thing for any person, whether mono, poly, bi, straight, gay, whatever, is time. And when we meet a new love, we want to delve into that because oxytocin, the love hormone, is a powerful. And adding a new relationship is never easy. You wouldn't be saying...
  7. LotusesandRoses

    Personal Summaries

    I'm Lotus, a professional in her mid-20's, and a solo poly lady. I'm not seeing anyone right now, since I work a lot and I am working on another degree so I can move up in my career. The first thing people usually notice about me is my crazy short and sassy dark pixie cut, and the second thing...
  8. LotusesandRoses

    I feel like I am going down instead of forward.

    I can barely share a bed with a cat. To me, I can imagine the crowding alone must be a jealousy trigger for some folks. Anyway, it sounds like OP's fiance is irritated because she's giving a lot of her affection to her girlfriend. Spend some solo time with the fiance, and don't shove the new...
  9. LotusesandRoses

    Solo poly people - what's your ideal?

    I'm a solo poly person, and new here, but this is my first post. Ideally, I'd have a queer/bisexual primary partner who didn't fit along the gender binary. I find some effeminate men very sexy, and being able to really share my feminine side with a partner, not just bear it, but share it as an...
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