Search results

  1. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Looking for Love in all the wrong places :) The story of my life
  2. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Spirituality and Polyamory What I don't understand is how a conversation to determine how to maintain our connection with our spirituality and at the same time be non-monogamous has digressed to a debate about the existence of God. It is imperative, if I believe Jesus is God, to love my...
  3. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Pagan I gave you my paraphrase of what I think Jesus was referring to when He used the word pagan. A wolf in sheep's clothing is what I think of. A really mean person who pretends to be nice. Matthew 10:13If they still refuse to listen, tell it to the church; and if they refuse to listen...
  4. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Fate I can't answer that question. We're talking about Jesus' heaven, not mine. You'd have to ask Him. I have a good friend who is LDS. I've asked him if I can visit him on his planet and he said yes. If I get a planet, you're welcome. I have the feeling that if you actually saw a place...
  5. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Pagan A pagan is someone who rejects your love even if you healed them of their sickness, fed them when they were hungry, and died to protect them from religious bigots who claim to be doing god's work when they harm or kill innocent people.
  6. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Christ’s commands us to love one another. He said He didn’t come to bring peace, but He came to separate traditional human relationships to become relationships that put Him in control. When I research a topic I always start with what Jesus said. His teaching about His living as an unmarried...
  7. loveboston

    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    Rape Avoiding abuse and mistreatment of our spirits should be as high a priority if not more so than staying away from anyone who would abuse our emotions and body. I take full responsibility for being so careless with my spirit. The abuse can come from any group, any leader and from any...
  8. loveboston

    Kevin's Hetero MFM Poly-Fi V

    God is Love Christ's command is that we love each other as much as we love ourselves. He elaborated on the subject of love by telling us that it was of no importance if we loved only those who loved us but it is when we love our enemies that we learn to love as He does. He defined perfect as...
  9. loveboston

    I am venting and just need a shoulder or an ear.

    Number 3 If I'm not mistaken you are one of the most sought after types of people in the entire poly universe. It's too bad that you had to be part of your friend and his wife's education but your experience provides valuable insight to all of us. You are loved and desired by a lot of very...
  10. loveboston

    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Health Jesus did a lot of physical healing. Don't I wish I could heal people of their physical ailments. A while ago while trying to deal with some common male performance issues we discovered that it is a good health habit for a man to masturbate twice a day and for a woman once a day. The...
  11. loveboston

    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Intimacy I think the issue of being non-monogamous with people and remaining married to Christ do intersect. I am extremely picky about who I choose to touch and who I allow to touch me emotionally and physically. Maintaining a relationship with my wife and with her friendships together with...
  12. loveboston

    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Spiritual Abuse JaneQSmythe, The trauma comes from those who use a supposed deity to embarrass and humiliate our deepest desires to touch, be touched and to love freely. Instead of guidance we are condemned for being sensual and sexual. Anyone who has been through it understands how dreadful...
  13. loveboston

    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Spirit Our spirit is our life. We received life as a gift from a genius creator who loves us. We share our life with others who would accept our gift of love for them. We are wise to put boundaries on how we receive and give love to each other but causing anyone to be ashamed of their need...
  14. loveboston

    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Delicate Operation I've heard many times the phrase, "don't throw out the baby with the bath water" referring to distinguishing between our relationship with Christ's Spirit, (love, forgiveness, undying protection) and our relationship with His followers. I now think of it as removing a tumor...
  15. loveboston

    Change in religious beliefs and being / becoming poly

    Hi I've decided that the evangelical church is a political movement using Jesus as it's cover. Loving money and hating enemies is the norm. I've just recently come to understand that my longing to love and be loved is a direct result of my relationship with Jesus, not some perversion...
  16. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    1st Hand Of course I'm giving 1st hand testimony. His Spirit lives in me. His Spirit is Love. Even for people who would crucify me for loving whomever allows me to.
  17. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Monogomy I prefer to allow Jesus to interpret the Bible and to understand why it is that those who claimed to follow Him seemed to miss His point. Money is the bad guy. Inanimate, non-human material created by people. A very cruel god. People are nice. Animals are nice. Trees are wonderful...
  18. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    Protest Ants Little bugs who have their place, but are often considered to be pests. Amazing how anyone can hear Christ's words not to judge or condemn and then turn quickly to a place in the Bible that allows us to contradict and disobey God. We are commanded to love one another as much as...
  19. loveboston

    Pondering sexual love & religion

    Jesus It's always sad when I see the word Christian refer to anyone who doesn't obey Christ's primary command that we love one another. Jesus emphasized the importance of forgiveness stating that if we don't forgive He won't forgive us. Forgiveness is subjective. We don't all agree on what is...
  20. loveboston

    Biblical Christian Poly Living

    The second commandment is linked and equal to the first most important commandment "Biblical polyamory," as defined by Jesus is to love our neighbors as ourselves, to not be co-dependent, but always inter-dependent. My wife and I meet with a clinical social worker on a regular basis to help us...
Back
Top