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Boring Guy.... I completely agree with you. I have long been a lurker in this forum and others. I find it easier to comment in a conversation when I feel that my particular view point and/or experience to helpful in any given situation. I find it hard at first to start the conversation. :-)...

I have noticed throughout the years that many men have a hard time with communication. I on the other hand find it quite useful to join online forums and discuss my issues and life with complete strangers. For me posting here can be therapeutic. I am in an anonymous space where I can take it or...

To clarify.... No I do not have a newborn baby. The baby in March was right after we got married in 2006. She is now 7 and has Aspbergers. The OPP hit after I slept with a man in 2007. It was not the fact that I slept with him but the fact that I did something with him that I wasn't allowed...

Ha I figured it out..... lol I know this is supposed to be somewhat serious but your post made me laugh. To answer your questions.... No we do not have a weird group sex only rule. As a matter of fact our only rules are full disclosure at all times and the OPP. And that neither of us pull...

and no.... He was not drunk. That's part of why I am having a hard time with why he thought it was a good idea to sleep with her with our four kids and her 3 kids in the house. Especially since our 12 year old was just in the next room. That's what has me buggered. The idea that at any time...

Something like that Thank you guys for all your replies. So I haven't quite figured out quotes so let's see if I can't cover this all. First, I'm not sure why him fucking her in the house with me there bugs me. I know this is something I have to deal with. I think it had more to do with the...

The rules were the same for both. The rules really were the same for both. When we decided to explore poly neither of us had been outside the relationship since we had reunited. Then we agreed to day together. We were still under those rules when he slept with her. It's not the act of the...

And I'm not exactly sure why. A little back story first: My husband and I met in early 2004. I was at the tail-end of my first marriage. The connection I felt with Sith was intense. In June of 04' my first marriage ended and Sith and I began dating. In July I moved back to my...

This is why..... I don't post that much. This righteous dislike of so called unicorn hunters. I am married and bisexual. I do have this ideal of a long term poly-fi situation. We are not practicing as yet because I am the type of person who needs to research before I can start a new...

The punctuation and spelling do that for me Ok so now I understand what you meant. It's the punctuation and spelling that are dead giveaways for me. And the thing I don't understand is why anybody would pretend to like reading when they really don't.... I mean are bookworms really that sexy...

Maybe so but then wasn't H.S. reading lists the topic? Helo, I'm not so sure about that. I am a huge reader and love works from Catcher in the Rye to Harry Potter and Dean Koontz. In fact I have read so many books when pressed I have a hard time picking out a favorite. However, I was under the...

So, worst book ever? First I will start off by saying that I am an avid reader and rarely find anything I dislike enough to not finish reading. That being said I have run across several books I could not force myself to finish and of those, 1 was assigned reading. I was forced to read Ishi...

I go with option D. I would have to say it's all of the above.... and grief. What, grief, when no one has died? On that front, I have to agree. No one has died. But sometimes the hardest thing to let go of is an idea. And while you are intellectually ok with an open poly marriage, the heart is...

Hey to all out there. I am new to the poly life in term but as I am coming to realize not nessasarily in practice. I have been married for coming up on 7 years to my husband and have been in an emotional realationship with my best friend seriously for close to 10 years now. This is a LDR so it...

Know how you feel I have a son who just turned 12. His dad and I have basically kept a open-door policy about anything and everything he needs to talk about. Because I am bi, I have always been very open with him about sex and relationships. We have had the sex talk and the puberty talk with...

Female, bi, married to a straight male. currently where it stands but actively seeking a triad with another woman. :)

Being a bi woman I am very new to the poly life so I am joining in not based on what I've seen but based on being the bisexual woman. :D I am just going to talk about what brought me to this life. I have been bisexual for as long as I can remember, although I did not come out to anyone...

Hello Out There From Colorado! Hi. My name is B and my hubby is N and we are just starting out on this journey of ours. We have been married for coming up on 7 years and have 4 kiddos. We tried having a purely open marriage for a few years at the beginning but ultimately decided that wasn't the...