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    Double standard

    Redpepper.... It was I that "slept" with other men.. and women.. together as in couples. I was drawn to having sex with mf couples. My wife knew I was bi (as I describe it-'to a degree' further explanation of that aspect of 'me' is I view a male member.. ie. a cock as something akin to a...
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    Double standard

    Thanks for your thoughts and advice. NYCindie- It may be possessiveness but Im not sure, perhaps it is in some ways... M is the most giving person I know and often literally "gives" things she loves/cares for away because she wants the receiver to experience the joy she gets from it. However...
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    Double standard

    I have sought advice from these threads before and hope someone can get through to me. I could really use some help here. Either help or a good hard kick in the arse... I would prefer the help though because I have been doing a lot of self arse kicking and it doesn’t seem to be doing any...
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    How do you tell your partner you want to be polyamorous?

    Thoughts I appreciate your thoughts, advice and concerns. Thank you pollynrrdgrrl, Redpepper, NYCindie, and Tonberry. Your compassion and willingness to help all of us struggling newbies is truly remarkable. Thank you for being straightforward. Over the last year, since I stumbled onto...
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    How do you tell your partner you want to be polyamorous?

    I am in a polyamorous "V" relationship with my SO and a longtime friend who became more, then even more (meaning love feelings happened). Everything was very good for the most part, except my friend has a boyfriend ("Steve") who does not know about me. I am divorced because I was deceitful...
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    A struggling mono in love with a poly

    Misplaced Tattoo Why she doesn't want to share the experience with the man who's name she is getting tattooed I don't know. May be reading to much into this but... perhaps she is, in a concious/ deliberate symbolic way 'marking' herself in his presence the importance of her husbands...
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    The Polly Roller Coaster

    Jealousy Polly, I found this in: http://www.xeromag.com/fvpolymistakes.html Scroll down to the 6th heading about jealousy, it might help. There is a lot of other helpfull thoughts on that site as well. Best wishes. IG http://www.xeromag.com/fvpolymistakes.html
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