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stephnmelissa, My partner and I want the sort of relationship you and your partner seek as well. Granted though we don't look for it. We are happy just the two of us as well. But we did get involved with a third almost three years ago now... however, it was a very complicated, messy...

Hi dshaz6344, I know what you mean. Coming out as a lesbian to my family and friends was a piece of cake compared to coming out a poly. Every single person I've spoken with doesn't understand what it really is and often confuse it with polygamy. It is so hard to get people to understand you...

Welcome! Hope you find useful info here.

Thanks for sharing your story. I'm sorry for all the shit you had to go through. Sounds like you are heading in a good direction now though :)

Set Fire To The Rain - Adele

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Exactly! LOL!

It doesn't make you a freak at all. I know how you feel, though. The pressures of society tell you you are only supposed to love one person at a time, and if you fall in love with someone else, then you must not love whom you're with. Well, that's how I felt, and sometimes am still made to feel...

HelloKitty, It sounds to me like you think of you bf more as your best friend than as a romantic partner now. Do you feel like you are still in love with him? Or do you feel like you just love him? To me, there is a big difference between the two.

Congrats to you on finding your loves :)

Sorry to hear he stood you up, that sucks. If you're feeling negative about your wife's reaction, talk to her about it. Make sure she really is ok with entering into a poly relationship and make sure she is really ok with you seeing a guy.

I'd take the time if I had it, just a bit short on it at the moment! Maybe will read 5 pages a day or something and get there eventually ;) Appreciate the tagging, still reading through things when I have a spare moment.

Will try that out!

Have you spoken with your husband about it? Or do you not want to let him know you're interested yet? I'm in Australia now but am a Wisconsinite by birth. Hope you find someone near by to speak with :)

Why are you so focused just on those two? What about the other member of the Quad? Why not spend time with them? I still understand your concerns, but it's a Quad, not a Triad, so take advantage of that.

I have been reading other stories when possible. Most of the blogs seem to be many, many, many pages long and haven't had time to read any except for Annabel's. I looked at yours but it's over 100 pages! Maybe I will just skim through them all some time. I am also reading other threads.

Well, if he didn't love the guy, then I guess I can understand why you'd want him to break off contact. If he had loved him, then that would be different.

Thanks for that list Annabel!

Halloween

I was wondering myself this recently. There must be but it's probably like coming out as gay/lesbian 30 years ago, something that wasn't done much.