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Currently only have my primary relationship, but I would agree completely. The only boundaries we have discussed having in the future are boundaries that will protect our relationship.

Yes, best to ask her. I'm a lesbian and use the term partner, BUT I do have straight friends who sometimes use the word as well.

I agree with this. I definitely broke the boundary we had talked about. And just because I would have been fine with her joining us doesn't make it ok at all. But I think, and I'm sure Rain will correct me if I'm wrong, by Rain's definition, since I broke the boundary, I cheated. I think the...

Thanks for your input redpepper... I'm not sure either of us could stand living with someone if we didn't feel they were our friend and we only tolerated them. We have talked a bit more as well and neither of us is ready for the other person to go out dating on their own. I don't know that we...

You had what I meant right :) And considering what you're saying then I guess polyfidelity is the term I should use. Not great with labels, etc. Had enough of that being a lesbian but I guess certain words need to be used here to properly define exactly what it is we are looking for or have.

I think it's great you all have enough love to give each other. I myself am new to the forum. Currently not living a Poly lifestyle but my partner and I would love to find ourselves a triad as you and your husband have with your third. I have read here that it's an unrealistic expectation but I...

I don't really have any real advice to offer as I don't have any positive experience in this. But I will say that the one experience I did have was destroyed by jealously, possessiveness and the feelings of being left out. I think it is fantastic you all care enough about each other to go to...

Hi Annabel! Thanks for your input. The cheating issue is one we have often fought about. I admit I cheated in some way but don't feel I cheated as in I went out looking for someone to cheat on her with and did it behind her back. While V and I were having sex Rain could have come in, I wasn't...

Oh my god, I'm a dumb ass. I just realized what happened and fixed it.

Thanks for your response. I thought you might say that from everything I'd been reading. We would both love to find someone else to love us both but I think we will need to talk about the fact that may not happen and likely won't and see where we want to go from there. I'm currently reading an...

Hi, while typing a post I somehow have made the size of the forum and text size very small! I can't figure out how to change it back to normal. Any help appreciated!

Hi, My partner and I (both women) are very new to polyamory. I have suspected that I have been poly-amorous for many years and after a situation that happened 10 months ago finally understood this is what I am. Let me explain the situation, though it's rather ugly and will take a couple...

Hi, I'm Storm, 30. I live in Australia, though I am originally from the U.S. I came here when I was 18 for a relationship. I've wondered for a long time if something was wrong with me because of my ability to have a 'healthy' relationship. I have only been in monogamous relationships, but I have...