I have found that I, personally prefer someone who has a primary. C has dated both and has come across problems with both. He met a woman, new to poly and single who within 3 days of them talking started with very Cowgirl, Mono staements such as, Our relationship needs to be sacred, if you...
We work out our finances like this: Each person pays out the same % of income towards the bills. It obviously means they aren't split into equal amounts, just equal percentages. We went through a few times where one of us wasn't working so whoever wasn't able to contribute financially, did ALOT...
Just wanted to say Hi, I'm new to the forum. I'm a female involved in a triad with T (f) and C (m) I was with T first and then we met C so we have all been together for about 5yrs. T and I about 7yrs.