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Hi, I'm S. I'm a 37 year old mono straight male 2 young kids from a prior marriage. My fiancee is A. She's 31 year old poly bi female. 1 child the same age as my eldest. I expect to be a long term community member. I'm just starting out in a poly experiment and I'm a lot nervous, as some of...

the OP Was made -very- early this morning. I'm in a much better state of mind :) Thanks for the empathy and the advice. Undoubtedly, I'll be back, this is far from resolved.

Good call Derby. We did touch on this but I'll be sure to make it a conversation point. The other guy is a mutual friend, and we've been pretty mum about this whole situation. I messaged him last night and he's open to starting a dialogue on this topic. This whole thing only went 'real' (ie...

She is self-described as a 'raging introvert'. She has few friends, but all of them are GOOD friends. She's made it clear that this is the way she is and that I shouldn't force social situation upon her. We're ok with that. We've discussed this, actually. If I had woekn up sooner, and...

Thanks very much hyperskeptic, for not being harsh with me (or her). As for she and I remaining monogamous if this opportunity passes her by? I think because of our openness with one another, and the fact that she is very antisocial, I'd see a second scenario like this coming many many miles...

I feel like this situation is very similar to my own. I did make a LONG post about it, but I fear I was mostly rambling. I might have to come back at some point when I've had sleep and food and re-write the whole thing. The biggest difference is that my fiancee and our mutual online friend...

Fair question.... The answer is because this happened by chance, in a time where she was hurting (b/c my divorce wasnt final and we're supposed to be getting married in 4 months) She doesn't have a lot of friends, she's introverted and because now that we've had this talk, she knows I'm not...

Hello everyone, I'm in the market for some advice, and I think you're the only people in thew world qualified to give it. My situation is not normal, so I would appreciate considered responses only please... no out-of-the-box comments, if that's possible. This is a novel, it's drama-filled...