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Thank you to everyone, yet again, for your replies. I haven't had the time to collect myself and post up my current feelings, because some things have changed. Others, obviously, haven't. We are dealing with the unfortunate situation that HMA just posted about with Adrian, and as soon as we're...

Thank you to everyone, yet again, for your replies. I haven't had the time to collect myself and post up my current feelings, because some things have changed. Others, obviously, haven't. We are dealing with the unfortunate situation that HMA just posted about with Adrian, and as soon as we're...

Thanks to everyone for replies. I've been having a lot of emotional blow-outs lately, and I unfortunately had another one last night. I said several things I shouldn't have said, and when I tried to talk to HMA about it; well, I feel like he just shut down. Everyone in my house just comes back...

Thanks to everyone for replies. I've been having a lot of emotional blow-outs lately, and I unfortunately had another one last night. I said several things I shouldn't have said, and when I tried to talk to HMA about it; well, I feel like he just shut down. Everyone in my house just comes back...

Thanks to everyone for replies. I've been having a lot of emotional blow-outs lately, and I unfortunately had another one last night. I said several things I shouldn't have said, and when I tried to talk to HMA about it; well, I feel like he just shut down. Everyone in my house just comes back...

Well, since this thread is about me - I guess I should probably chime in. The NRE between HMA and Adrian was absolutely NOT just between the two of them. Whether or not I was lukewarm the entire time, that NRE spilled out and over into HMA and I's relationship. I've been really struggling. I...

Well, since this thread is about me - I guess I should probably chime in. The NRE between HMA and Adrian was absolutely NOT just between the two of them. Whether or not I was lukewarm the entire time, that NRE spilled out and over into HMA and I's relationship. I've been really struggling. I...

Well, since this thread is about me - I guess I should probably chime in. The NRE between HMA and Adrian was absolutely NOT just between the two of them. Whether or not I was lukewarm the entire time, that NRE spilled out and over into HMA and I's relationship. I've been really struggling. I...

*raises hand* Happily child-free! My fiance has a 5 year old son with his ex-wife, but the small creature lives out of state with family due to inter-familial politics. I love the little creature, and if what's best for him is living with our household and by extension, challenging my childfree...

This is a strange question for me. For me personally, love and sex are two very different things. I can have sexual feelings/attraction for many people; which I'm sure isn't even a foreign concept for some (or even most) mono's. I have come to realize and understand that I cannot love more...

Calicowgirl - that really was a great explanation! It's always a little tough to explain the "disassociation" to someone who isn't really involved in BDSM, or has never experienced it. Subspace, for those who are able to experience it, is a WONDERFUL thing and a fantastic bonding experience...

I got injured in a pole accident, so I haven't been back in a hot minute - but I have EVERY intention in the world of going back. I'm getting back on a good workout routine, and I can't wait to get back into it. It's how HMA and I met! :p I broke all the stripper rules. lol

LOL, HMA and I do this all the time. I'll act a certain way and it's "Oh, there's Violet! Haven't seen her in a while..." :D

Violet is my stripper name! My favorite stage name I've used so far. :D It fits me SOOO well. It just sorta started getting used all over the place. I usually go by "PerfectViolet", because HMA's nickname for me is Perfect.

Hello again, everyone! I don't know if HMA has been posting around here much, but I certainly haven't. lol I figured I'd pop in and let everyone know what's going on. The entire thing with Anne is certainly done and over with. She's been merrily posting away on her facebook about how happy she...

No, no! That's what this thread is here for. Sharing experiences and helping one another, yeah? The "duplicity and lies" certainly sounds familiar. It's really so painful - but I know it will heal with time. I'd be glad to talk to you guys more - misery likes company. :o It's amazingly...

Much appreciated. This is the first time either of us has ever been through anything like this. I'm not sure if I speak for HMA or not, I think I do ... we're both just so lost and unsure right now. It's really hard.

That was also a severely shortened version of the test. The longer and "official" version with more evenly spaced questions is probably going to be more on the money, baby. lol

Even though what was between HMA, Anne, and I isn't there anymore, I'm still really interested in learning more about myself, and grasping poly relationships, just in case. Lol I'm curious to understand your mindset here. I think I'm in much the same place – or was – as NightDragon either is, or...

Yes. Yes we would. And I actually did lol - for real - when I read that. Seriously. My thoughts are with you!