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    Difference between partner of a polyamorous women and a cuckold

    There are varying degrees of cuckolding. It doesn't have to involve genuine humiliation, or abuse, or chastity.
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    Difference between partner of a polyamorous women and a cuckold

    I think that the two can go together very well. I am in a poly relationship where I love two men, who both love me, but there is a cuckold dynamic also. The most important thing is not to worry about it. (I did, very much.) Labels don't matter as long as everyone is happy!
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    should I be worried about being cuckold

    It was not so long ago that I was fearful about the whole cuckold thing, and how it would effect my bf, and our relationship. It makes me smile now to think of how worried I was about it. :) I have no problem in describing my boyfriend as my cuckold now, and think that it can go hand in hand...
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    Poly and sex

    My partner likes to know I'm being satisfied by my other lover. He likes me to talk about it, and to watch us. We do not have threesomes as such, as only my lover and I have sex when the three of us are together. My partner does participate in a way, though, by watching. We have a full-on...
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    How common is it for guys in poly relationships to be their girl's primary in every way but one? (cuckold discussion)

    I see Nathan as all of that and more, and we haven't grown apart sexually. I love the sexual side of our relationship.
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    How common is it for guys in poly relationships to be their girl's primary in every way but one? (cuckold discussion)

    I do not think that Nathan is attracted to Ewan, but it wouldn't bother me if he were. I tease him about being bi because when he was at high school he had a relationship with another boy.
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    How common is it for guys in poly relationships to be their girl's primary in every way but one? (cuckold discussion)

    Thanks, Meera. That was an interesting post. The cuckold thing is just fun. The three of us do not take it seriously. But Nathan does get off on seeing me with Ewan, or knowing that I'm with him. I think it turns him on that Ewan is more able to get me off. Well Nathan is my primary mainly...
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    How common is it for guys in poly relationships to be their girl's primary in every way but one? (cuckold discussion)

    You're my cute little cuckold, and Ewan is my big stud. Not so shy now, am I? ;)
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    How common is it for guys in poly relationships to be their girl's primary in every way but one? (cuckold discussion)

    :) He is very cute, and I know how lucky I am to have him. As for the "cuckold" roleplay, well, not exactly. But we do have our own thing, and all three of us are very turned on by it. ;)
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    Jealousy, Envy, Insecurity, etc.: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I agree. It would be one thing for Nathan to have sex with other women. I don't even like the idea of that. I admit I like having him to myself. I have accepted it before though, and could again. Luckily, I don't think I will ever have to. If I am honest with myself, I really don't think I...
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    Affection in front of metamours

    It's not a problem for us. My bf Nathan is a very affectionate person. We are always holding hands and hugging or kissing. We do not change the way we are together when we meet up with my lover Ewan and his wife. Ewan does not mind at all, and Mia thinks it is sweet. Ewan is not very...
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    Primary and Secondary: could there be other terms?

    What makes my bf Nathan my primary is the fact that we live together, and he takes care of me and my son. Also, I care about him more than my lover. Is it even possible to love two different people equally? But my lover Ewan is my primary sexually, especially now.
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    Last night we finally got around to allowing Nathan to watch Ewan and me having sex. It's something I've been putting off because I wasn't 100% sure about it. It was awesome. I have to admit I found it to be very erotic, and a big turn-on for me to have Nathan watching us. Ewan was also very...
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    How Much Sex is Enough Sex?

    Well, it depends. Nathan and I spend a lot of time cuddling in front of the TV, or reading together. This will often lead to sex, but not always. I love that side of our relationship. It is romantic, affectionate and loving, it doesn't always have to be about sex. It's not something I have with...
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    sexual versus emotional jealousy

    You say it's confusing, and it is. Everybody is different. My boyfriend likes the fact that my secondary loves me, and that I love him. He would hate the idea that it was just about the sex. Speaking for myself, I could deal with my bf having sex with another, but it would kill me if he loved...
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    How Much Sex is Enough Sex?

    Speaking for myself, I can never have enough sex. Maybe I have lots of energy, but I'm never too tired. Yes, our week goes like this. Week 1. Monday- Nathan (my primary) Tuesday- Ewan (overnight stay with secondary) Wednesday- Nathan Thursday- Ewan (I go home to Nathan at 10.30 pm) Friday-...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    I'm not sure why I feel uncomfortable about it. I'm very different when I'm with Ewan. I'm not sure I want Nathan to see me that way. I would not want to watch Nathan with someone else, I would hate to see him touching someone the way he touches me. I would not want to watch Ewan with Mia...
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    My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?

    I just thought I would post to let everyone know how things are going. I was going to post after I read what Nathan had said in his own posts, but it would have just been me blubbing, and telling you how much I love him and how amazing he is.:) He's right, I do feel guilty. Even now! I need to...
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    Question for the ladies

    My partner Nathan wants to watch my bf Ewan and me have sex. I was hoping he would lose interest in it once he got to actually know him. He hasn't though. I'm not comfortable with it. I don't really understand it. The 'cuckold' thing has been discussed on my own thread. Nathan and I have also...
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    My double standards: an honest investigation

    I can relate to what you are saying. I love my boyfriend very much, but I also love another man. My bf is mono, and I have in the past encouraged him to see others. If I'm honest with myself, though, I know that I would be so upset if my bf was to love someone else like he loves me. I would...
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