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I really don't think Geoff would be turned on by that idea. And if I were to say to him, "I won't answer you until you fuck me," we would both end up doubled over with laughter. Ewan is the one for dirty sex talk. Geoff would think I was nuts.

No, I would never willingly give Geoff up, ever! Ewan will be long gone before I allow that to happen. Also, I want a poly relationship. I want the two men that I love in my life, but only if everyone is willing.

I'm not sure that Ewan thinks of Geoff as a cuckold. He has never used that word, but he has said things about him, mostly in sex talk. I have never talked about what Geoff is like in bed to Ewan, never once. He has never asked. But he is arrogant, as I said. He will just assume that he can...

The problem with this is that I actually love Ewan. As I said in my first post, I love both men. Yes, I would be the first person to admit that he can be an asshole. Well, I'd be the first person after his wife. :D He is not the most likeable person. But he is, basically, when it comes down to...

Yes, this does really bother me. I have asked him why he does. I've told him that I miss him waiting up for me. He tells me that I'm being stupid. He says that he cant wait up for me because I come in too late and he has to be up early. He also says that Max has got used to sleeping with him...

Yes, Brid. I always tell him how amazing it is, and he is suitable proud of himself. :)

This post really gets to me. It's not that I don't appreciate your honesty and help, because I do, and that's what I'm here for. It's just that I hate that word, cuckold. It has such a stigma attached to it. You describe what it means, and then tell me that it describes my boyfriend to a tee...

Well, let's take the BDSM things that Ewan does to me. Like I say, there are not that many boundaries. Geoff and I did once try a bit of BDSM. I thought that he might like it. We did have a great time. It was hysterical. We couldn't stop laughing. Geoff could not take that sort of thing...

I respectfully disagree, and return to Dingedheart's analogy about the pro footballer. You can coach an average man to be a better football player, but you cannot make him a pro. It's the same with sex. With regard to Geoff cumming to quickly, we have worked on this together and things are good...

Yes, she does. She's a very interesting and funny lady, and a bit eccentric. I like her. She is older than Ewan. She's 42. He's 39. She does not have just one lover like he does. She is free to sleep with other men, and she does. There was a time, before I was with Geoff, before I had met...

Thanks for the advice, Redpepper. I shall read your blog.

I agree with this, but I don't want it to get to the point where Geoff will want to leave me, and I don't think it will. I will make sure he knows that I love him more and am willing to give up Ewan, if needed. Is this what happened in your relationship, Brid75? I truly hope this will be the...

That is a fantastic arrangement you have. Do your husband and bf never fight? Do they take turns with sex? How does it work when you all live together? Also, in what way is Mono dedicated to PN? Why is it that you wouldn't be together if it weren't for PN? That's really nice for your son. Does...

NYCindie, we have. He has trained himself to last longer and he does. It's good. He will never last anywhere near as long as Ewan though. Ewan is the sort of man that has this ability to not cum until he wants to. I can make Geoff cum through me giving him oral in five minutes. I really enjoy...

I find your posts tough to read because they ring so true to me. I'm glad you have the poly relationship that you need. I hope I can have the same.

Yeah, but that's what he was doing. He would need another girl that he loved, yes. Maybe we could work on that. I would be jealous if he loved someone else, as I said. I think I could overcome that, though.

Thanks for your honest post. I think that both you and Brid75 are right. I have to find a way to break the truth gently to Geoff. I cannot lie to him, and I can't go on as I am at the moment and just ignore the issue. And I can't tell him it's not his business. I don't want to hurt him more than...

You're right. It wasn't right for Ewan to say those things, and he doesn't now. Ewan knows how much I love and care for Geoff. I make it clear to him that I don't want to hear those things again, and he hasn't repeated what he said. Does he get a kick out of the fact that he's having sex with me...

At the moment, I'm not sure of anything, only that I don't want Geoff unhappy. If it means I see Ewan twice, once or not at all, then so be it. I want both. I'll be honest-- it turns me on to have two men. Having poly relationships with these two means a lot to me. I will try to keep both, but...

As I said in an earlier post, I have asked him, and he told me that he doesn't enjoy it, and that he has never really enjoyed casual sex outside of his relationships. He could easily get girls, if he wanted to, but he doesn't want to. I have encouraged him, but he says that he just wants to be...