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Well, I have a high sex drive. I need sex every day, sometimes more than once. As I said, Geoff has a sex drive that matches my own. I have dates with Ewan on Tuesday and Thursday night. I have intercourse with Geoff every night, except on those nights. I always give Geoff oral on those mornings...

Once again, thanks everyone. I'm going to have a good talk with Geoff this week. Hopefully it will go well. I'll let you know.

I think you're right. I'm no good at lying, anyway, not to him. And me not answering him, or fumbling over myself, just means he will keep asking.

No, I don't think he has been influenced by a friend or acquaintance. He would never tell anyone about this. He would be too embarrassed about it. He may be thinking he's not man enough to satisfy me, though, but it would have been something he had thought himself. We have separate friends...

You're right. We can't go on like this, and it's me that has to get things right. Your assumptions about my boyfriend and lover are also correct. You're also right about me loving Geoff more than Ewan. I do always give Geoff the love and sex he needs. We are both very touchy-feely with each...

Well, Ewan has nothing to be jealous about, does he? He's the cocky type. He knows how good in bed he is. He knows that he's got what I need. Having said that, I also have what he needs, so it works well. Yes, he has asked about Geoff. He has said shitty things about him. He also gets a weird...

Thanks for your kind advice everyone.:)

Yes, I agree. Even though Geoff knew about my relationship with Ewan before we became a couple, lots has happened since then. He has shown me and Max so much kindness, and there is no way I could ever tell him to just deal with it. I love him and also care about him and want to make this as easy...

Yes. Geoff looked after my son when I was away. I'm going to talk to him about this all soon, as it's really starting to bother both him and me. Maybe he needs to hear the truth. I don't know. He was sulky and moody again yesterday at dinner before I went out, to the point where both his...

Well, we don't have any trouble getting a sitter for Max. Geoff does go out with his friends sometimes when I'm with Ewan. Last night, in fact, he went out to watch football. He really does enjoy spending time with Max. You may be right though, and it's something I will talk to him about. The...

Haha. He does sulk. And you're right, we have to discuss this and have it out proper, sooner rather than later. I just need to work out how I go about it.

Yes, I live with my boyfriend, and he has become my beautiful boy's dad. You're right, I did have the perfect situation for a while, and I'm hoping that I will be able to again. You say that I have to figure out what I need, what I really want, and what I can live without, because you foresee...

I'm 26 and Geoff is 28. I think that our love for each other has grown a lot over the last year. I know how much he loves me. He is very affectionate. I also know how much I love him. To see my son with him, and to watch their own relationship develop over the last year has meant so much to me...

When Geoff asks who I prefer sex with, I always say the same thing, something like, "Please don't do this. I love you so much, but I don't want to talk about that." I always fob him off. I think he takes that to mean that I prefer Ewan. I think he would think the same if I told him that it was...

I asked Geoff if he wanted me to give Ewan up when I was feeling guilty. I didn't mean it. And I don't want to. Geoff is very laid back and easygoing. He really isn't the controlling type, which is why he said it was up to me. (Ewan is more of the controlling type.) I don't think Geoff has any...

Hi everyone, I'm new to the site, and just need some advice and guidance from people who won't judge me. I met an older (39) married man, Ewan, two and a half years ago. We entered into a poly relationship. He has an arrangement with his wife where they have agreed that they can see other...