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  1. janeb1958

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    That's great! My partner is that way too. This is all new for me. When I shared it with him, he fell more in love with me. Gotta love that part, too!
  2. janeb1958

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Yes it does!!! Thanks!!!! He's always been this way and can't wait for me to either have my own primary or another secondary, or 10!!!
  3. janeb1958

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    Compersion I'm so excited and so proud of myself! I met my partner less than 5 months ago, but it was like love at first sight. He's married and had several other lovers at the time. Really quickly, he told me he considered me a life partner, not just another lover. Even though he's the only...
  4. janeb1958

    Way cool! Thanks!!!!

    Way cool! Thanks!!!!
  5. janeb1958

    generations differences for mum's and daughters on sex and sexuality.

    My mom raised us with the notion that sex was a duty - NOT to be enjoyed. I think daughters should be raised to enjoy sex. I have quite a few friends whose daughters talk with them openly about sex -- I'd have given anything to have a mom like that -- to help me through so much! I was so...
  6. janeb1958

    Hanging out with the boyfriend and his wife

    My true journey started April 3rd. I'm far from being the same person now that I was then, thank goodness. I'm learning more and more each day. I finally comprehend, accept and practice compersion!
  7. janeb1958

    Greetings and Salutations

    Good for you!!! Communication y'all have is great! The word I'm learning to understand & practice is COMPERSION -- sounds like you have that down with no problems!!! Congrats & welcome!
  8. janeb1958

    why "poly women" are bisexual ???

    I wasn't accusing you of forcing anyone -- sorry -- guess that didn't read the way I heard it in my head!
  9. janeb1958

    why "poly women" are bisexual ???

    I don't get this -- sorry -- what I do is MY choice -- I'm choosing to explore. He's just receiving some extra benefits!
  10. janeb1958

    why "poly women" are bisexual ???

    I didn't take what she said as stereotyping at all -- just her opinion with true people she's met...total facts. As for me -- I'm seeing bisexual women seem to have more fun in life! I've had my first experiences within the last year & they were more intense, in some respects. It has enhanced...
  11. janeb1958

    Shared my partner, now my body rejecting intimacy with him. Help! Why?

    I agree with Sage. Your feelings are valid and okay to have. Now you need to work through the "why" you're having them. I told my partner that right here, right now, I don't think I'm ready to watch him make love to another woman. We've discussed threesomes. I said yes, but the other woman...
  12. janeb1958

    Hanging out with the boyfriend and his wife

    I don't think it's idealism. I call it PREFERENCE.
  13. janeb1958

    Heya from San Diego

    Heya! Do I happen to know you?!! Just curious!
  14. janeb1958

    Heya from San Diego

    I LOVE disc golf! I use to live within walking distance of Morely Field -- I'm still not that far! Y'all let me know & I'm there!
  15. janeb1958

    Hanging out with the boyfriend and his wife

    I do the same thing. My "weekends" are Tuesdays and Wednesdays. I drive up to their home when I get off work on Tues am (about 7:30am); I have a key to the home and the code to the alarm system. When I'm here, he stays with me in the guest room. He refers to me as a partner, not a girl friend...
  16. janeb1958

    Hi from Sunny Southern Calif!

    Welcome! I'm new here, too. Learning is always a good thing!!!
  17. janeb1958

    Heya from San Diego

    thank you for the "welcome"'s! Yes, San Diego is awesome...let me know when you come to visit!
  18. janeb1958

    Heya from San Diego

    I'm in my first poly relationship, but not new to the concept. Just hoping to learn more, maybe meet like minded folks in my area, too!
  19. janeb1958

    Poly in San Diego

    Heya! I totally understand! I'm in a poly relationship -- he's married & has several other lovers. He tells me I'm a life partner & others are just women he dates -- I get that. I truly believe it will help WHEN I find other lovers, myself. It's not jealousy, as much as envy, for me. I...
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