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    Sailing Solo

    These are not the bobby pins you are looking for.
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    Phy's story - as you like it

    Congratulations!
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    Dave's Story

    It turns out my last post was premature. Daley had actually fallen asleep, and she was on the phone with Wineguy. I felt like a jerk. I need to trust more and keep my emotions in check better. It's one thing to be mentally ok with her decisions, but it's another to be emotionally ok. I've got to...
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    A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")

    Ugh. Good luck :( That sounds absolutely awful.
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    Dave's Story

    Well, I think I have some clarity. Sassanach had to cancel, but we rescheduled for Monday. Susan had invited me to join her with some of our mutual friends while I was waiting for Sass, so once I had that ironed out, I joined her. Everything was good. We were flirting heavily. Some strong...
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    Dave's Story

    No worries. I really do love candor, especially in a forum like this. Just the opposite. She's steaming ahead. She's had three bfs, including me, for over a year, and one she's been hot and cold with, plus some FWBs. She has been encouraging me to do the same, except she doesn't want to have...
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    Dave's Story

    In the absolute base sense you are correct. We do go some time without responding to messages, via email, text, or IM. However, this (meaning social chat) is so far out of the realm of normal. We have been doing this for damn near every day for two years. It has never happened. Add in all the...
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    Poly journey of Mya and rory

    Congratulations! I hope for the best!
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    Dave's Story

    I really don't know where Susan and I are at. Monday we met up on g-chat and had a really hot time and a nice talk. I had mailed her a love letter on Friday and she went to sleep with the card. Yesterday we chatted during the day, and made plans for me to visit for a few days. I know she...
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    Semantics / Language is Fluid

    Marcus, I 100% agree with your post. Emm, that is literally the dumbest thing I have ever read. (the dictionary, not your post).
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    Dave's Story

    Back from vacation with some new drama. The Daley stuff never materialized. He went back to ignoring her, for whatever his reasons are. I never understood why she puts up with it, or why he does what he does. But whatever. I'm through caring it about it one way or the other. I reached my...
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    little quirks, that's me

    FWIW, extra energy took MONTHS for me. But eventually it started working.
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    Zen Bonobo

    Sounds fantastic. Supportive in-laws are such a blessing.
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    Dave's Story

    Smiling. It's funny how perception is different. It's one of the reasons I enjoy writing. Someone will pick up on a nuance and I'll have to re-evaluate if that's what I really mean, or if it was unintentional meaning. There isn't really a score card. It was just some literary license. It was...
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    Redpepper's journey

    We'll miss you RP. Best wishes and safe journey. We'll keep the lights on for your return.
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    Dave's Story

    FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK! So, we get to introduce a new player and NRE to our happy group. I think I'm also going to change to a nickname situation, so T will be Susan, K will be Kay. Our new player will be Daley. Daley and Susan started getting very friendly online about a year ago. Then there was...
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    Thank you. I'm glad you like it. It's nice to know that people are reading :) Things are great...

    Thank you. I'm glad you like it. It's nice to know that people are reading :) Things are great with T and I. I just am concerned going forward. I am a planner and try and anticipate problems. I don't worry, but I like to have an idea what might be coming around the bend. She's really going...
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    Seeking help with possessiveness, jealousy, and falling in love.

    Ooh. Complicated. The short version is a long, long time ago (over 15 years), when I realized that my wife wasn't enough for me. She said I could do whatever I wanted online and it wouldn't bother her. I got infatuated once, but it didn't last long. I've met lots of wonderful people. Some I've...
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    Seeking help with possessiveness, jealousy, and falling in love.

    There's never been inherent jealousy, but there has been insecurity on my part. I was constantly afraid she'd meet someone better than I was. From reading here, I've learned you have to identify exactly what is upsetting you. For example: Are you possessive? Is it that you don't like her...
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