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I just wrote in another thread, that part of my my journey to overcome this was realizing it wasn't a competition. Tiara is with me because she wants to be with me. I don't have to do anything better or more often than other men in her life. I just have to be me. That's what attracted her in...

There's a lot of resources here, but I can share my experience. Go slow. Be honest. Seek Feedback. Remember it's not a competition. That last one is the hardest because it feels like a competition. It feels like we compete for mates. I think it's hard wired in us. But you can convert that to...

Who would want to work in such a place anyway? I could come out at work, but there's some downside and zero upside, so it's not worth it. We've actually had some people with open relationships or alternative lifestyles and they weren't treated any differently. In fact there's a huge push for...

I love to tell and hear. Neither T nor K want to tell or hear. Coincidently, that's about the only thing about my life K doesn't like me to share with her.

Thanks for the feedback, you guys. T got the news we were hoping against. Her bf (8 years+) has metastasized cancer. It's already in three places. This is in addition to other real-life stuff going on. We hung out a little last night, and I'm pretty sure it will be fine. She's very...

I can feel it happening. We have had very little playtime the last 6 weeks, and it's turning much more into a long-distance relationship. One solution may be to talk on the phone more. For whatever reason, we haven't done a lot of that. It's always either cam or text. I know when T feels...

Almost a month since I posted last. Everything is pretty much the same for now. T is going through a really tough time personally. It could put our November plans on hiatus, but it's entirely justified. I wish I could do more to help her, but there's nothing I can do but offer support and be a...

Don't worry about ratings. People really like to get their inner jerk out when they are anonymous. I've certainly enjoyed your stories and writing.

Congratulations!

There aren't too many of my friends who know that I have a girlfriend. Of those, only two asked me for details of the meeting. S was one and the other was a friend from a message board. Those are completely unsurprising, but it made me smile nonetheless. On the downside, both my current best...

Really good to hear!

I know this is a little old, but that should be a fun trip. My wife and I did it a couple years ago. The Freedom Trail took us all day so unless you skip some, don't plan too much.

Okay, now I have some time. I really don't think it could have gone much better. Wife was comfortable. She did take a low dose Valium just in case (left over from pre-LASIK surgery), but being with T has not seemed to impact either our emotional or sexual relationship. I didn't expect it would...

Back home after the trip. In almost every way it surpassed my expectations. Longer post tomorrow. I love both these women in my life. They have made me a very happy man.

FWIW, if someone knowingly had the flu and was careless in passing it to me, I'd be pissed off. Let alone a lifelong disease.

Time for vacation. First stop, seeing S on Sunday. She's thinking pretty seriously about being exclusive, so made it clear the benefits have been revoked. That doesn't really change much for us anyway. Then a week later, my date with T. I'm getting lots of mixed messages from her now. Who knows...

Nom nom nom?

Medical update: My ear is still broken. Extra mucinex, ibuprofen, and antibiotics where prescribed. K had LASIK today. Having her be able to see me for the first time without corrective lenses was incredible. I am so happy for her. She's doing very well. My sister-in-law had forgotten it...

You need to wake up and focus! ;)

I highly recommend Bonk, by Mary Roach.