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I could try and see where it goes. I hate how awkward everything is now. I can't live like this.

I'm really annoyed and frustrated. Whenever we are all together, it seems too inconvenient, and I get blamed for "starting issues," because he works days, and at times I don't see him until 8-9 pm. And I work 11pm-7am shift at an assisted living home. We rarely have days off together, so I'm...

I don't know to be honest. I have no idea. That's y I want to have everyone talk and be open. Every thing is being done so separately, he'll talk to her and I won't know what was said, or just bits and pieces. I don't want him to talk her into staying. She just does things for him so he won't...

Oh, I will. But like always, I won't get feedback. And if I do, it's going to be negative. And John is going to get pissed because I want to have a plan in place for her to leave, if not soon, at some point.

What's hard is it's now been a few days since all this came to light, and Lenore is acting like nothing has happened. She says that she doesn't want to be in this relationship, and she loves John, and she would never take him from me. But none of us have yet to sit down and talk as a group, to...

Like I said, mistakes were made. Not wanting to hurt anyone, I left it alone. I grew to like her and care for her. But after she told me she didn't feel the same, I didn't know what to think. A few months passed. I was getting sexually aggravated. John and I have been having less sex with...

We all live together. She has not left yet. I don't know when she will be. No one else seems to want to talk about it besides me.

We want a triad, okay? We don't want to be open, with him dating one woman, and me dating another woman. I'm not comfortable with that. I want to be there when my future husband is touching another woman. That's what I wanted in the first place. THIS IS NOT WHAT SHE WANTS.

Thanks for the threads. I bookmarked them so when I work tonight I have something to keep my mind off the fact they will be alone together and quite possibly, most likely, be having sex. I hope this is not the case. And no, this isn't just about sex. And yes, he loves her, which is making this...

Look. John is my fiancé. Lenore would never ask John to leave me, nor would he ever. He said, no matter what, in the end, it's me and him. I'm protecting my relationship. I have every right to. And no, Lenore is not committed to John. If she were, she would not have the option to leave in her...

Okay, here is the situation. Lenore came here for John, but he assured me that we would all get along, and it would work. John and I had agreed that we would find someone that we both could "enjoy." Everything was fine, or so I thought. But Lenore is not attracted to me, ultimately, because of...

I am a 29-year old female. My bf and I have been dating for almost two years. Back in July, we moved Lenore in. Mistake 1, he did the majority of the talking to her. Mistake 2, he asked her to move in without discussing it with me! Mistake 3, I was not attracted to her. Now the problem is...