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Yesterday I wrote a reply and as soon as I hit the reply button the stupid modem went down. So, I don't think you're nuts at all. I enjoying watching Bear with our gf and he enjoys watching us together. Voyeurism is quite normal.

Thanks, Anna : )

As much as I'm sure you'd like to get in her face about it, that would be counter-productive to do so. It is up to him to inform his other partner that you are now also his partner. I have to wonder... since this issue has arisen just what he HAS told the other SO. Has he told you that he's...

Raindrops on roses and whiskers on kittens... I don't know why I have that song in my head. Silly, I know. We had a really great weekend. Monday the three of us went out on an actual date to a nice Italian restaurant. On the way home Bear decided that he wanted to make his fabulous spaghetti...

Seems like a silly "rule" to me also. I talk to Lovely, Bear talks to Lovely, Bear and I check each other's OKC messages to see what the other 2/3s of the couple has been talking about. And, we all talk on the phone at the same time nearly every evening. There is LOTS of communicating going on...

Squee!!! Lovely should be here soon! The three of us decided that it makes more sense for her to come here than us to go there because we have a huge house and she has a one bedroom apartment. It's a full house this weekend at our casa. Me, Bear, our three boys, the eldest boy's gf, and then...

I'd have to say about 5% of my time is spent with other poly folk and that's only online. It's not like there's a huge pile of poly folk in my little burg.

Perhaps someone has said this already, but... (and, not a movie, but oh well!) I just finished watching season 4 of True Blood. Sookie really needs to try poly then she could have Bill AND Eric. Me? I'd want Eric and Tara LOL

Very true! But oh, so hard to do!

I decided to unclick the "don't let straight people see me" button. This might have been a mistake... "Do you like kinkiness?" Gee. Now /there's/ a conversation starter. ><

I'm not anywhere near being an expert on poly relationships, being new to this myself, but I do know that you can't /make/ someone do anything. My only advice is to calmly, rationally explain to him how you feel. After that it's up to him to decide what he wants to do. From what I understand...

Huh, this is a very interesting thread. Both Bear and I identify as born-again, Spirit-filled Christians. And neither of us would date someone that does not identify as Christian. That's one of our deal-breakers.

Imaginary,right. I was half asleep when I wrote that. I /meant/ polygamy. That's what I get for sleep-posting!

While I'm sorry that your friend didn't take your revelation well, I have to agree with the others. You did come off as preachy, and you got your "facts" wrong. While, yes, many cultures did practice a type of polyamory there were others that practiced enforced monogamy. The Roman Empire for...

I'm sorry... I'm having a chuckle at your expense. I'm seeing a parrot in my mind's eye... ya know... Polly wanna cracker and all of that. It's poly with one L : ) (feel free to laugh back at me sometime, k)

Bipolar much? Yesterday evening I swung out of my slump. All of a sudden I was happy, smiley, and a bit manic. This morning things are good. There are kittens running around under my chair playing, the moma cat is purring and cooing at her babies, my dog is in the house instead of under the...

Very true. For all that I am a somewhat emotional person I /swear/ I have borderline Asperger's syndrome... (which would make sense as my bio son is a full-blown Aspie). I was in a weird head-space yesterday when I posted that. That said.... PaPoly, if I was offensive, I sincerely apologize...

Cool. I just joined. I'm the 5th member LOL And, I'm already in one of those relationships, but I can show support : )

We told our 20 year old over dinner tonight. He said, "Hey, you're adults, whatever you want to do is fine with me." And he wasn't surprised. LOL

My thoughts: --Sounds like jealousy to me. --You say that you want him to be happy but you don't want to see the evidence of that happiness because it makes you uncomfortable... sorry, but to me that's just silly. --Asking/requiring her to change the habits of her relationship with him...