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When it comes to looking after finances, our child, emotional support, time spent together, love, friendship, physical affection, etc., I am my girl's primary. The only part of her life where I'm not is where it comes to satisfying her sexual needs. In this area I'm secondary to my metamour. I...

Thanks. :)

That makes sense to me. I don't believe I'm the jealous type. I would not have entered into my relationship if I were. However, any fleeting moments of jealousy I do have are far too brief to matter. These moments have come about only recently, because my girl and her lover have allowed me to...

Yes, we are, and our beautiful girl deserves it. x

This is an interesting concept, but I don't think it could work in reality. As much as I love my girl, and also support her need to have another man in her life, I don't think I could consent to her having his child. She lives with me, and therefore the day-to-day love and care that child would...

I don't think it's that important to label things though. The most important thing is that Aurelie gets all the love that she needs and wants. It is important that Ewan, Mia and I make her feel as secure as we can, and encourage her to ask for what she wants from us, and that we all support...

Cuckolding has one very specific dynamic-- the husband being "forced" to watch another man "take" his wife. This doesn't fit for me, as I'm not being forced to watch anything. I want to. Aurelie could not wound anyone, let alone anybody she loves, so this doesn't fit either. Aurelie is a...

Open relationships-- This is what Aurelie told me we would have when we first got together. It's also what I've told some of my friends I have. It was a hot topic of conversation amongst them for a while. They soon got bored when they realised that I was not going to tell them anything apart...

Polyamory-- This also describes what we are trying to achieve. Ewan and I love her, and she loves us. But what we are trying to do is create a four-way relationship/network/family, including Mia, Ewan, Aurelie and me (five, if you include Max). Aurelie is at the centre of this, but we all want...

Voyeurism/exhibitionism, polyamory, open relationships, cuckolding... Voyeurism/exhibitionism-- I do want to watch Aurelie with Ewan, and now she has agreed, I'm looking forward to it. If she had said no, though, I would not have been upset. It isn't that important to me. As Aurelie said, I...

I've just been catching up on my girl's thread. Thanks for all your kindness. I didn't mean to make you all tearful, though. Sorry. :) Anyway, I have been reading another thread, and it got me thinking about a few things, so I'm going to post some more.

We have decided on this. We are going to make sure we get together quite regularly. Aurelie and Mia are going to meet up during the day for coffees and lunch. I've promised that when we need sitters for Max, Mia will be top of the list. Aurelie and Ewan are still going to get together on...

We met for the fourth time this week. Mia had this idea that we should get together without Max being there so that we could talk about anything that was bothering us. It was a good idea. Mia said that she just wants to get to know us better. She said that she wants us to be friends. She also...

Two things have pissed me off. Neither one of them are that bad, though. 1. Aurelie went away for a weekend with Ewan, as she has already told you. What she didn't tell you is that she told me about this weekend away on the Friday that she was going. I had already made plans for us that...

When Aurelie told me this, I could not believe it! It was so absurd that I nearly laughed, and would have if I hadn't realised how upset she was about it. It is just one example of her jumping to the wrong conclusion. Max had started to notice that his mum was going out every Tuesday and...

When I first met Aurelie, straight away I really liked her. When I say liked, I mean, I really, really liked her. I thought she liked me too. So you can imagine how disappointed I was when she turned me down and told me about Ewan, and what the set-up was between them. I convinced her to let me...

Aurelie, I have never said anything like that. WTF? The only thing I have ever gotten jealous over was your trip away with him. Aurelie attributes certain feelings to me in her posts. Some of them are not accurate. The one quoted above is well off. The title of her thread suggests that I am...

I remember that night. I can only apologise, Aurelie. I'm sorry that I came in from a shit twelve-hour day at work in a bit of a mood. It was unreasonable of me to want to come home to a quiet night with Max, only to find two screaming banshees (Max's little pals), my mother, and two of your...

Polyamory? I have to admit that I had never heard of it before I spotted Aurelie reading on this forum. She is incapable of lying or trying to cover something up, and her reaction to me asking her what this site was about was enough to tell me there was something on here she did not want me to...

Hi, I'm Aurelies partner, Nathan (aka Geoff). Aurelie has asked me to post, and after reading all the thread, I want to try to convey my own thoughts, and clarify my own views to people who have been kind enough to try and advise her, but also to Aurelie herself, in the hope that by putting...