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  1. stargazer23

    Whole new set of dating "rules?" Or do the old ones still apply?

    This. Granted, both of us are in situations that make anything truly solid prohibitive at the moment but I'd like to feel at least comfortable enough to exchange small murmurings of infatuation and hopefulness for some future...something or another. The two times I had the nerve to say...
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    Nice to know I'm not just a "whore"

    Just means she's getting something out of it you can't spend at a store. :)
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    Whole new set of dating "rules?" Or do the old ones still apply?

    I guess what I mean is that there's a point in every mono crushie thing where it's too new to start bugging them about whether or not they have feeeeeeelings without sounding like a kook but it's becoming clear that you're simply not on their list of priorities. They enjoy your company when it's...
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    Nice to know I'm not just a "whore"

    I kinda dig the ironic "slut" moniker...it's just the earnest use of the word "whore" on behalf of family and enemies that stings. I've been meaning to read that book since I saw it on Coke Talk. It's about time I pick it up, methinks.
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    Hello from New Orleans

    My favorite city in the world! I'm new too, so I guess that's something else in common. Cheers!
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    Whole new set of dating "rules?" Or do the old ones still apply?

    So I've definitely identified myself as poly insomuch as I need to be free to share love with more than one person at a time and have multiple loves who meet my needs and I theirs. My problem is: I'm not at all sure how to go about dating anymore. I mean, in a monogamous world, things are a bit...
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    Nice to know I'm not just a "whore"

    Thanks, y'all. Like I said, this is new to me. I would appreciate any input/advice y'all have.
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    Personal Summaries

    Stargazer23, female, bi-curious, live on the Gulf Coast in semi-large, conservative city. New to poly, I just came out to myself about four years ago with the help of a friend and mentor I call Rockstar. I'm working my way out of a marriage to a man who can not accept me and with whom things...
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    Nice to know I'm not just a "whore"

    My whole life, I've had trouble with the following, anguished, inner question: "Why can't I just love them BOTH?!?" More than once, I have found myself in a happy, loving relationship, only to meet others, become absolutely enamored and have the urge to explore...all without wanting to lose the...
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