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Until i see an actual therapist for some of the child hood trauma its what stops me from actually pursuing this life choice. I don't want to burden or hurt others with my issues.

Thanks, I hope as time goes on I will feel connected with my self in many ways. I have just been going through a lot of self reflections and I feel very overwhelmed by it all.. I am pretty much as I always say causing my own drama,. which is really uncool on so many levels. thanks for...

The rest of my story How I became poly or why I relate as poly I should say. So, we started out like a lot of couples do, having flings.. I never could see myself swinging, boie is also not the type of man that feels comfortable with performing in front of others, Or comfortable seeing me with...

Hi all, going to put a Warning out here. my grammar sucks ball's! sorry, I try, I really, really do. Moving on. I have been with this sight for some time.. I created an account years and years ago when I was a newbie looking for more info, didn't realize I had it and forgot about it, and now...

I agree I feel the same way .. equal and full of love.

Sort of as today I took my self off the poly listing.. I have to many emotional issues but still relate in the since of poly.. My long term goal is to have a triad with my boie, he is also open to the idea.. but that's only when I am emotionally sound we both agree on that.

Well, what a bummer. Sorry to hear that she has condition of bipolar. I'm sure it works great for you all. Just hoping I can learn to scale back myself.

I hear ya. I am in the same boat. T and I have been together 18 years ourselves. It's a joy to have that. But I am doing the same thing. I wonder if the planets' alignment has anything to do with this? lol. It does seem like a reflection-on-self time. Hope we both can fully grow. :)

I think I relate to your gf. Seriously, that is me. I am learning to scale back. More info would be appreciated on some things that helped her scale back. I am one that likes interactions. Conversation, even if it is mundane, makes me feel like we are connected. I haven't written a background...

And many more to come It's great to think on things as long as you keep a positive thinking pattern, unlike my self I tend to poison my thoughts, so I personally am working on the positive thinking.. Ahh how did he cope, it wasn't easy he says, he said that he had to better time manage, fool...

Only you have that answer no one can answer or perceive the future. You hope you get to sounds as if your visualizing your self not in the future?

You didn't elaborate on how you overcame it. So my question is: how did you, with just the identifying of it? What were some of the steps or things you did to overcome it?

yeah sorry I signed up and then lost the link and just recently reconnected:)~ I think I was more a lurker in the day :) not so much now..

I know how you feel. I understand the poison that floods your brain. and I understand how you are feeling, although I am the one that is poly, and my husband mono. funny right, although I think he is more poly then my self:(.. He has logic.. I have emotions.. its hard.. I want to say it does...

Hi I had a few questions and read a post to some one else by you.. stating you had brought in the love, in to the triad? do you mind if I ask you a few questions?