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    Word Association Game!

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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Not feeling good. My ex and I desperately want to be with each other, but both of us know that we won't provide what the other needs (seeing as he's fervently opposed to sharing). Today I cried in public because of the depressing things he's been saying, and we ended up having sex even...
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    The difference between love and friendship.

    It is pretty sad, to be honest. The type of person I am is highly desirable among the kind of guys I hang out with, so even if I don't develop feelings, my friend usually will. My three closest friends at the moment all have some type of interest in me. The last time I had a purely...
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    If you were an animal, which would you be?

    Or if you prefer, what's your "spirit animal", the one that best represents who you are? I would be a bunny, I think, because even though I look cute and innocent, I'm quite the pervert! :p
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    The difference between love and friendship.

    I actually didn't know when you asked me. I knew she was from somewhere though, and I did some some searching. She's Tewi Inaba from the Touhou video game series. :3
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    The difference between love and friendship.

    Well, the thing is, I wouldn't mind cuddling or holding hands or maybe even kissing, but the feeling is a kind of light, sweet and airy (if that makes any sense), and it's not passionate. He's very kind, polite and gentle and I don't want to "tarnish" him with sexual feelings. (Though there do...
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    Is polyandry less common than multiple wives?

    The impression that I get form this forum is that MFM is more common...though maybe it's bias, or that women in that arrangement are more likely to post on forums or something.
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    The difference between love and friendship.

    One of the reasons why I feel that poly is a better fit for me than monogamy is because I don't feel like I need to restrain my feelings when I start to like a friend. That doesn't mean I want a relationship with them or want to have sex, but that it doesn't have to be as clear-cut as...
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    The difference between love and friendship.

    When I broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago, I told him that even if I wasn't interested in someone else at the moment, our relationship wouldn't be able to continue because he didn't meet my emotional needs. Then, he told me that if I need emotional support, that's what best friends are...
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    A request: state your gender and sexual preference/orientation

    Female, straight. I'm a little blurry around the edges. I find women sexually attractive, but I'm really just "one of the guys" and I find women difficult to connect to emotionally (or to understand, for that matter). I wouldn't want to have sex with anyone I'm not emotionally connected to...
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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    It was about a year ago when I became interested in my (now-ex) boyfriend's best friend. I was feeling torn between having to choose between them and told them that I wanted to date both of them. A big mess happened, but I decided to stay with my boyfriend and just be friends (with emotional...
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    Feeling numb and destroyed...

    It's mostly my mother. She has a very conservative view of how things "should" be, and she's convinced that she's always right. She's tried to kick me out of the house a few times before for doing things she considers immoral. When I lost my virginity she didn't talk to me for weeks...it's...
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    Feeling numb and destroyed...

    Well...we broke up. During all the talks that we had about poly I realized that there were other issues in the relationship that were also serious, and that the relationship was on shaky ground even if I did decide to stay monogamous. We're just too different from each other, and I have more...
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    Friendship vs Love?

    I struggle with the concept myself, because I have high standards for my friends and usually end up falling for them. This is actually a problem I have right now, because I have a strange restrained semi-romantic relationship with my best friend, which led me to consider poly as an option...but...
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    Feeling numb and destroyed...

    Feeling numb... Some backstory is required first: I'm 20, and I've been in a committed relationship with my current boyfriend for 2.5 years. He lives with his best friend since high school in an apartment close the the university all three of us attend. I live with my parents, but for the...
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