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Welcome to the forums! Please keep us posted on how your female friend takes the shift in your marriage commitment and whether or not she's open to that. One word of caution to consider. In my now almost 8 months of searching for a female partner that is open to poly relationships I found one...

WOW, since 2006? Ouch! That does not sound promising. Might as well not even try here since we will be leaving this city in at most 2 years. For those 5 years has your girlfriend been involved with others and you not? Or are you both waiting until you find the right couple? I agree about...

This is the male half of a polyamorous marriage. My wife and I have been trying polyamory for the past 8 months. While she has been very successful in locating both male and female partners I've been completely unsuccessful and have become very frustrated with polyamory.

It was suggested to me by another poly couple (poly-female / mono-male) to not where my wedding band, nor say that I'm married on online profiles. But I completely agree with you, Lying will catch up with you and the outcome won't be great. Not to mention the last thing I want to do is give...

Vigda, She doesn’t want you finding another partner? That is really an unfortunate request to ask of you and frankly it’s extremely disrespectful and simply unfair. I agree with others, being poly/mono as a choice is one thing, but being told – “you’re not allowed to have another”, well that’s...

Dreamweaver, Your last point in the above list, that is pretty much what I'm dealing with. While my wife had no problems locating a boyfriend and a girlfriend I am. I've been using (6 months) several online and local resouces to find a female partner and I've come up with nothing. I've gone on...

New to Poly as well vigda, I find myself in a similar situation and trying to learn how to navigate our new lifestyle as well. I'll post elsewhere about the beginnings of our foray into poly, but here I will post my similar concern as well. Unlike you (vigda), we live in a smaller college...