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so, a couple of weeks ago i hung out with the ghost and i finally had the conversation about our relationship. i had thought about it for so long and decided that i did not want to risk losing the relationship with NG. my options seemed to be: 1) keep the romantic relationship with the ghost...

still thinking about things...my feelings for the ghost really confuse me. i know that i have been in love with him before but denied my feelings until much later. from a safe distance, when we were "over", i could say that yes, i was probably in love with him. now i'm wondering if it's the same...

....and here comes the crash. well not crash exactly but...a time for me to really get serious about what is important to me and what it is that i want. i had a nice (but emotional) weekend, spending time with both the ghost, music man and NG. on friday i went out for drinks with the ghost and...

i am giddy and nervous and really happy about my life at the moment. a couple of days ago i had a talk with NG about how things are going between us and as it turns out, we are both in love. gaaaah! happy happy happy. and nervous. yesterday i went out for dinner with the ghost and told him...

thank you for your input FullofLove1052! i don't really like having two dates in the same day so i think what will happen now is i will just hang out with the different people on the days around my birthday and if they wish to celebrate me in any way that might happen but otherwise i will just...

my birthday is coming up next week. usually on my birthday i will meet up with a bunch of friends for some dinner and drinks and maybe karaoke. since i'm friends with all of my exes it has not been uncommon to have one or two exes there, along with my current boyfriend. no problems. but now...

hey it's been a while! just thought i would do a quick update about what's going on with "the menz" and my feelings about relationships etc these days. i have been seeing music man a couple of times. one time we went out for drinks and we had a great time. i was thinking that i wanted to kiss...

the concert date with "nerdy guy" (that name is really not very good. especially since i kind of only date nerds) on friday went really well, i was in a relaxed happy mood, the music was good and we ended up hanging out with some friends of his at a bar after the show. it turns out that this guy...

so, a quick update...not a lot has happened, but * the sex drive is back! yay! i'm still not getting it on though, but now at least i have the inclination... * had a nice time with the ghost yesterday, took a long walk in the sunshine and talked some more about relationships etc. i think he got...

I was thinking about this sentence: You probably wouldn't want them to feel alone, either. But I can understand the feeling, "Why should they be able to see each other a lot, and I am alone?" If Bobbi were hanging out a lot with a close friend, and not another partner, would that be...

in the past week i found myself not being very interested in sex. i met with the ghost and sure, it was nice to hug and kiss for a bit but i kind of just wanted to be left alone. at first i was thinking that maybe i was just frustrated because we never have full on sex. i only want to have safe...

thank you! yes, i hope that we will get along and that the meeting will at least help to ease some tension.

some news about my ex and his girlfriend...so when we met up the other day and he told me about her jealousy i suggested that she and i could meet. this is a thinking i've definitely picked up from poly, to meet your so called "rivals" to see that they are just people like yourself and not some...

i met up with an ex last night for drinks. we broke up about 5 years ago and now only see each other maybe twice a year to catch up, even though we live in the same city. he is another one of those people that just lingers in my head and heart. i think it's because we had an intense...

on friday i was at a restaurant to celebrate the ghost's birthday. i had picked out a gift and a card that i thought suited him and was happy to see that he really liked them, and his friends liked them as well, one girl even said something along the lines of "good job, you get one point"! :)...

so, i've now experienced being "dumped" for the first time since practicing poly! this was from the guy who was the first person i had sex with since opening up my relationship. we went on about 5-6 dates and had sex a few times. i liked him well enough, i mean he is a really smart interesting...

That's very interesting. I was speaking more from my own experience, and opinions I've heard from friends, etc., but it's always interesting to see results from studies.

I can see why someone would attribute this reaction (or at least parts of it) to patriarchy, but I think this is not just a reaction men have towards woman-woman relationships, but also many women have towards man-man relationships, thinking that it is less of a threat if your partner has sex...

i don't really believe in astrology, but one thing that is supposedly typical for "my" sign gemini and which i think is actually true for me is being interested in a million different things. i get so focused on a new idea, research it, think about it, talk about it. but i never want to do just...

take this waltz (someone must have already mentioned it, right? didn't come up in a search though. throughout that whole movie i was just like "taaaalk to your husband! don't throw it all away just because you're into this other guy now!" so annoying.)