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there is a guy who i've known for a long time. i call him the ghost, in part because he is like a ghost of my past who keeps popping up in my head and sometimes in my life, and also because he is very pale. :) we first met about eight years ago i think. we started hanging out and i found that...

sooo...i was feeling very sad and not feeling very safe that my feelings and insecurities would be respected by my boyfriend. my friend who was visiting me has been very anti poly since i first told her because she is looking out for me and doesn't want me to get hurt. but i had told her that "i...

thank you fuchka, yes i am really learning the lesson about my limits now! i don't want to paint the picture of my boyfriend as a bad guy, we are just experiencing this in very different ways. there have been several times when i had thought that we were clear on something or that he "must...

hello again...the story continues. so myboyfriend and i were talking about opening up our relationship, but i wanted to make sure that i could keep up emotionally with what was going on, that it was a progress i was comfortable with. at first i said that i wanted to keep talking but that as a...

i don't know if i have any words of advice to give you, i just wanted to say that i sympatize with you and i recognize that feeling...at least what i interpret your feelings to be. working so hard to try and keep up with the pace of someone but being exhausted and wishing they would just slow...

ok, so part two of how i ended up exploring poly... i was not happy with the living situation my boyfriend and i were having, but i was not yet at a point where i saw it as a serious problem or could find a way to voice my concerns in a clear way. but i could sense that he was thinking of things...

writing has always been very important for me, not only for sorting out my thoughts and releasing tension but also to help me remember what has happened before - i have a really bad memory...so i thought i would describe my poly journey here and anyone who has questions or comments is more than...

hello! i really appreciate this forum for all the life stories and experiences that help me through the process of my own poly journey. so, a brief introduction: i'm a woman in her early thirties, i am very interested in self development and letting go of fears that hold me back. i am amazed...