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    Greetings and salutations

    heyla and welcome baby, good to see your pixels. Everyone, this is my legal hubby :)
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    hello

    heyla and welcome from across the pond :)
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    Hi, from Edmonton

    heyla and welcome! :)
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    Poly Dating Site?

    Chris, Thanks for the new site. Signed up :)
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    We are new to polyamory, guidance please

    hey Paula, poly men - yes, so far it has been my finding most poly men seem to be much more open, up front, communicative, attentive and oh definitely more responsive difference between open relationship and poly - well this will differ more from person/couple to person/couple, but of those...
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    howdy

    heyla and welcome!! wow, you sound very much the way I did when the damn finally burst for me and I had to face some realizations about myself about 6 or 7 years ago, its never easy going through change when you already have a partner but its oh so wonderful when they try to be and eventually...
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    Please don't judge me

    Welcome, Derby. :) My advice would be talk to him, ask him to share any details about any possible new ladies, take it slowly til you find your level of okay-ness, and to continue to keep you in the loop. Maybe you might even talk to the new lady, if possible. Take baby steps til you both find...
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    We are new to polyamory, guidance please

    Heyla and Welcome! :) As Quath said, communication, lots and lots of communication, honestly, theres no such thing as talking too much, err not that I've found. Jealousy may or may not be an issue, if it is, be honest and let your partner/s know, and just try to figure out how to not let it...
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    What words do you use - lover, partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, something else?

    I like the tribal ideology, it sounds very wonderful, just lots of folks sharing love, helping to take care of each other and the little ones running around, sounds very nice, wonder how the reality lives up to it though............ ever curious I second that the bi ladies are out and about...
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    Falling in love with someone who's mono...

    Danny You sure we don't know the same gal? hehe Sounds very similar to my heart's most recent fall. She's the friend of my best friend and is uber sweet, caring, just one of the most wonderful ladies I've had the pleasure to meet. Only thing is, she is mono. Oh, and she's also not bi, so even...
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    Quick intro

    heyla and welcome :)
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    New to the site...not to Poly

    heyla and welcome :)
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    Why the difference?

    This used to be a common problem for me, until I figured out the best way to nip it in the bud. When I meet someone I'm interested in, when introductions come, I smile and introduce myself, while stating I'm poly, and have 2 current loves. Then I add something flirtatious, if I'm feeling...
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    What words do you use - lover, partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, something else?

    generally speaking I call them all simply "my loves", when speaking specifically about one or the other I say hubby, hubby of heart and wifey, or call them by the nicknames we use for each other i.e. hubby of heart I refer to as Darque Prince or DP, hubby I refer to as Bubba most often, and...
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    Hello All

    welcome :)
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    Guten Tag

    Heyla and Welcome :)
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    Hello :)

    welcome :)
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    HI! New from Oklahoma

    welcome :)
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    Hi from North Texas!

    heyla and welcome :)
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    Living with unexpected polyamory. Help?

    Talk! To him, to her (if you're comfortable with that), all three of you, even. Talk and talk and talk some more. Feelings aren't meant to be rational, but it seems a bad decision to me to infer how he may or not feel without giving him a chance to respond to what you're feeling. He may...
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