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    Polyamorous vs Promiscuous - A Question of Motive

    I agree. I also think the internet thing is very helpful with the flirting because I don't feel so pressured to say something witty right away. I have also had hubby say, "What's the worst they can say? That they aren't interested? Then you say, 'Well, thanks anyway,' and walk away." But...
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    "I Grew Up In a Poly Household. Ask Me Anything"

    Thank you for posting this!! It has helped a LOT with some of the questions that SluttyUnicorn, DaJoshy and I have been discussing and thinking about.
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    Polyamorous vs Promiscuous - A Question of Motive

    I apologize. I know it may not have seemed like it, but I went back and put the ones there in there LOL I tend to just type and type. I have been doing what is called "unconscious writing" for a number of years and that is just sitting and writing or typing whatever comes up and to mind. It is...
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    Polyamorous vs Promiscuous - A Question of Motive

    I have to say that I know exactly how you feel, but I am female. I am not good at flirting. I am shy about asking a girl anything, let alone to come home with me and hubby. Hubby has the same thought process about how hard it is to say "No really, my wife is ok with it and would love to meet...
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    Coming out to parents about new gf

    My husband and I lived with my mother for quite some time in the beginning of ur relationship. My mom and I have always been very close but it has also been a unhealthy closeness in that I was way to connected to her and had a hard time not telling her about every single aspect of my life. I...
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    Pregnant girlfriend. WTF now?

    Thank you for this thread!!! I have found so many things that we had not thought of discussing, that we have now discussed because of these boards. I have been having some thoughts about what would happen if our gf were to get pregnant. Would she have an abortion because she doesn't want...
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    HELLO! new post!

    Hi Baby!! Isn't this place FREAKING AWESOME!!!!! OMG!!! Just in the past 2 days, I have felt a 10000% turnaround (although I have learned in my statistics class that you cant have 10000% of anything, either you have all of it, or you have part of it, but you can't have it plus some) in our...
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    Been there, done that, don't know if I like it or not

    Yes, it was. And even though we didn't get to fold the laundry today, we will have a folding party tomorrow with music and chips and sodas, and it will be a blast, and give hubby a much-needed break after watching the kiddo while both she and I napped (her on and off) all afternoon.
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    Been there, done that, don't know if I like it or not

    By the time morning came around, I had decided that this relationship might or might not work out in the end, but it wasn't going to not work out because of a blowup on my part. I had yelled at and been just plain horrible to my entire family for over a week. This was all caused by fear...
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    Been there, done that, don't know if I like it or not

    Thank you sooo much for the reminder about his intentions not being to be rude or hurtful or uncaring. I know my husband is a great guy. I have also found that my therapist, whom I have been seeing for the last 10 years, has not had the positive effect on my marriage that I thought it was. I...
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    Been there, done that, don't know if I like it or not

    I absolutely agree that the child has to be the biggest priority. I guess I am wrestling with the idea that I haven't had the experience of a 5-year old being my priority. I have not lived my life around children enough to feel like I won't say or do something that will mess the kid up for the...
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    Been there, done that, don't know if I like it or not

    I am a 35-year old female who has been married for 15 years to her just-out-of-high-school sweetheart. When I met my husband I fell in love at first sight. He has a bit of emotional baggage, as did I. I have childhood sexual abuse issues, so sex is a kinda iffy thing for me, as it is. A big...
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