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Wow, I'm really sorry for all the negativity you've been getting on the forum. I had been following (lurking) for a bit reading your posts and I know how hard this has been on you, on all three of you. I really hope that you are all able to work out something that works best for everyone...

I agree with Sage. While I think there's always a "better" time and place to express our feelings, you should never keep them bottled up. It will take time for your husband to heal (and it's great that you are giving him room to do so) but it will only hurt your relationship with your husband if...

Unfortunately, trust lost takes a lot of time to rebuild. Just when you think you've put it past you something comes up to remind you that there's still more work to do. Hang in there! It sucks now but as long as you both work hard it can be overcome and you can find comfort in him again. I wish...

Wow, what a journey you've been taking! I'm glad to see that things are getting a bit better and I know how hard it is when you struggle to figure out what to do and feel like you aren't getting anywhere (and your partner is frustrated too). In reading your blog, a lot of your struggles...

In general, I feel like omission is lying. I'm not talking about omission in the sense of not telling your partner(s) about every tiny aspect of your day. That's just silly, I'd be lying all the time by being unable to remember everything. I mean, willfully not saying something because you...

I first heard about poly toward the end of my first triad about two years ago by finding a book called "The Threesome Handbook." (I remember feeling really retarded looking through it but I ended up buying it and it's actually been helpful!) I'm 25, bi, and mostly stumbling my way through this...