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LOL. I suppose we could just bring out the ropes and paddles instead!

Thank you for asking! I have a pretty negative self-concept regarding my social skills. I'll refrain from going into patient mode and spewing my guts out on here, but let's just say that I find social interaction difficult. I'm actually not worried about sex, but rather flirting and all the...

BTW I wasn't making any assumptions. I just went back today to check their answers when I made that post. I didn't make any decisions based on them.

God no. I'm a heathen, and agree with Sex at Dawn all the way. This is how I see it. Step 1: Be mono with one person since you were a teenager. Step 2: Be anxious dating adult women. Step 3: Set i = 1. Step 4: Have erection difficulties on occasion i. Step 5: Think it's going to happen...

Wow, NYCindie, thanks for the thoughtful response. That's a moving story. Look, I'm not pressuring myself to get my dick wet. The last time was incredibly enjoyable, and I do feel a palpable connection with this woman. I just focused on pleasing her, and I can do that a lot better without...

Are we from a different generation? I met each of them on OKC, wherein they all answered the match questions, saying that they expect it would take one to two dates to be sexually intimate with someone they really liked. Also, I spent fifteen hours over a week with the one I'm super into...

LOL. No, dingedheart, that is definitely not the problem (although I did have at least one drink in each case). The non-monogamy idea was mine and I suggested it about six years ago, a few months before I asked her to marry me. We've just been doing the baby thing for a while, and beating the...

Until two months ago, I had been monogamous with a single partner for eleven years, since I was seventeen. We recently opened our marriage up, and I've had four new sexual partners. I have been unable to get and maintain a reasonable erection with any of them. I can with myself or my wife any...