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I'm sorry that it was such a flop. It took me awhile to be able to tell Gamerboy too. He did the same thing that your husband did, althogh joking is a regular defense mechanism for him, so that didn't make it any easier. Although it wasn't the first time we had discussed non-monogamy, we had...

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I have often wondered the same thing. I'm not bi per-say just a little fuzzy on the lines and I hate labels. I am not against the idea of dating a women at some point but I also don't know many women and I am usually "one of the boys," so its not terribly likely to happen. But regardless of...

I am with the majority on this. It is absolutely none of his business and if you continue to justify and defend your decisions to this person, he will just continue to invade your privacy and life. This person will likely never except you; don't let them continue to hurt you. I have another...

If your husband is making jokes about him being your boyfriend he might ok with the idea. My partner (Gamerboy) made similar comments about our friend (MadScientist). One night last year Gamerboy and I were very drunk and I finally gathered the courage to explain about polyamory and my...

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I managed to lift my mood enough to enjoy Christmas Eve and Christmas day with the family; it was nice and the kids really enjoyed themselves. On the other hand, my mood seems to have slipped back into crap. This time of year is always a little difficult but this year everything just...

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Imagination, Mad Scientist isn't easily offended. I think I am still overly concerned about the what-ifs. If I never tell him how I really feel, will I always regret it, or will I eventually get over my feelings? If he and I start some sort of relationship and it doesn't work out, then Gamerboy...

In a conversation between Mad Scientist and Gamerboy, Mad Scientist said he wanted any long term relationship he's in to be non-monogamous. So at least he's not totally against the idea. Like you said, any conversations we have had about alternative relationships have all been hypothetical. I...

I am starting to wonder where my holiday spirit is. Right now it feels like I'm queen of my own little pity party. I've been very productive,all of the holiday shopping, baking and crafts are done, but I still can't seem to shake my mopey mood.

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I am in a similar position. I am in love with a good friend too, Mad Scientist. He and my partner (Gamerboy) have been friends since elementary school. All three of us have been hanging out regularly for two years now, and in that time, Mad Scientist and I have become good friends. It wasn't...

After a rather irritating conversation with Mad Scientist, I feel like crap. We constantly banter and bicker back and forth and this time it hit a nerve or two. Everyone is so used to me hanging out with guys but I get so tired of being seen as one of the boys. It sometimes feels like I have to...

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Right now, I really don't want to love the Mad Scientist anymore. I'm tired of my heart hurting, I really thought once I admitted my feelings to myself, it would get better. Admitting it has only made me realize I've had feelings for him, for at least a year. Even if my intuition is right and he...

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