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Thank you for this advice. I will have to re-read The Five Love Languages because I believe I am a mix of at least two languages. I did accept dates and hung out with close friends. I may now have a second boyfriend after reconnecting deeply with a former lover. However, time will tell. SO...

Thank you :) Been in this relationship a relatively short time. This is the first holiday or special getaway he has had with this girl. We have not done similar get aways although we have talked about it.

These past two days have been intense for me. Contemplating my being polyamorous and being with a poly man, who is out of town with another woman. I figured he's away and after reading advice from people here and from close friends (one of whom is a full fledged poly), I decided to go ahead...

This is an excellent point, for which I am thankful to you for bringing it up. I would have loved a text initiated by him while he was away. I realize I have an issue I need to work on myself and I think these past few days I have done a good job doing so. I accepted a couple of dates, one...

I am glad to 'meet' someone who seems to be in the same boat as I am. How do you deal with this? How long have you been in this relationship?

I have considered this. Many times. If he has been texting her while he has been around me I can't say I have noticed, but I'm pretty sure he has. He also made arrangements to have him and her picked up by a friend for a date while he was out with me; and at that time I made it clear to him...

Thank you for the responses. I realize he probably doesn't want to make her feel like he's not there for her 100% when he is away on a weekend with her. But then doesn't this mean that being in a polyamorous relationship involve feelings of loneliness when the other person decides to go...

I'm pretty torn up today. I'm a very independent woman, in my 30s. I've always been interested in the subject of polyamory, however, for the most part of my life I've been monogamous - or try to be anyway. I do have polyamorous tendencies, which has led me to believe I am indeed...