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She was going to pack up tonight. Didn't. Things are better. And by better I mean I'm not getting screamed at. I have talked to the Dom. He's not a BAD man. He just has no real interest in her. He's told me as much. He's told HER as much. That's why I felt safe with it before. A twist...

More or less. I would take it. I could take it, I've taken worse in my life. Thanks. I'll try and clear my head a bit. I just can't fathom why, when I'm offering everything she could want, still makes threats like this. Sometimes it feels like that there is a part of her that hates and...

No. I can't not see my kids every day. That would hurt too much. If not them, me. I feel completely unvalued.

I think I have no power in this. Maybe I just need to recognize that. My wife is a rage addict. She gets off on being angry sometimes. I think it empowers her. I can't sustain anger for long. It's too hard. If she can't see that I'm letting her have everything she needs I can't make her...

I don't want divorce. And I don't mind being threatened. It's just words. I can let go of resentment pretty easily. My kids are 2 and 7. I don't think I could put them through that. I have to protect them. I can't let them think ill of their mother. Ever. I would take the fall for the...

Thank you for your thoughtful replies. Background info: I'm 38. She is too. Two kids. I wish I could say things have gotten better. But my wife has left me. Or is about to. I told her that I no longer expected her to abide by our agreement. I told her I'd try and take time to work on...

I'll have more later, but let me just ask the following question: are you assuming here that initiated this behavior? I didn't. It was her idea to be "passed around". For the record.

Hi all. New here. Hope you're all well. I don't know how to write about this. I'm not a very good writer, and I'm tired, bone tired, right now. I'm not poly. Neither, had I thought, was my wife. What we are, or were, was swingers. Whether or not that's a variety of polyamory, I don't...