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True.. some people have an easier time with all of this then others though. I've never had a poly partner, but a partner I had who was kind of interested in other men, I was ok with her being with them; the men she liked to some extent were both taken though (one had a wife, the other a...

Yeah.. I'm not not a fan of BDSM, lol :-). Reluctance is as far as I go :-p. Well, to me this is a thorn issue; put rather simply; why would people get off on this? I've talked to some people (men and women) who believe that something may not be quite right in their sexual desires and no one...

Almost always, I agree with this; if there isn't some spontaneity in what's going in, I pretty much can't get into it. That said, as long as there's some spontaneity, I'm ok with one or both parties getting paid to do their thing... Nods... well, I think the main problem here is if the only...

I think there's a lot of bad things in a fair amount of porn, but that there's also some good porn and we have to help that good porn grow, laugh :-)

Definitely. Ofcourse now I want to know what you'd categorize as soft and what you'd categorize as hard, laugh :-). But I understand that may be a tad too personal ;-). Lol :-). It seems from what you're saying that you are therefore.. lesbian? Aww :-). Had a look there.. didn't really see...

Actually, I didn't mean to imply that I was just interested in porn videos/pictures. I'm glad that you mentioned your primary interest in erotic literature, as have others, it's actually made me think about it again after a fairly long hiatus. I find that I'm under sexual pressure or what not...

Cool, heh :-). I too want a plot. But, so far atleast, the only plots that I've found to be really good are generally the unscripted ones; as in, they may be told 'ok, you're going to do a porn scene', but atleast one of the participants has license to kind of just ad hoc things. I also really...

The use of condoms is something I've definitely thought about. Coming from my perspective; whenever I've used condoms with a partner, I've never been able to get off. Why this was so, I don't know. What I do know is that, perhaps in part because of this, I really like seeing the -non- use of...

The Pirates ones? Link maybe :-)? I think of grungy as icky so I'd agree on that basis, laugh :-p. I also don't like 'just sex'. I want a story line behind it all. That being said, I find that most of the story lines feel phony; I just can't get into them. Ok, here's going out on a limb and...

Wow. Thanks for all the positive replies; was kind of nervous of what people would think of my thread, laugh :-). Will get to individual posts now...

I just came across a video that brought up issues regarding porn in what seemed to be a pretty funny way. That being said, I think the points it brought up were pretty good. I've touched on the subject of porn briefly in the past, in the The crossover between Polyamory, Swinging and Sex work...

Well said :-)

Aye. I understand why most people who want emotional connections shun sex work. I would probably not even be exploring all of this if I hadn't met this woman who did sex work and identified as polyamorous, but ever since then I started thinking that polyamory, swinging and sex work are just...

Same :-) Yeah, in one conversation I was in, the subject started with pornography but ended with sex work :-p. Agreed. This is why I'm happy I was able to find people who had studied the issue more or who were even sex workers in the past. And ofcourse people like newrelations, who is...

I'm also not a fan of beauty pageants, but I do like the fact that the issue of transgender people came up in such an event.

Thanks :-). I had noted your arrival here with some interest but had decided to not say anything for a while, as I didn't want you to be mired in any of the controversy surrounding me :-p. Understood. It would seem that you haven't seen much crossover between polyamory and sex work, and I...

I think the difference is rather thin; a crossover implies that the definitions of the terms aren't clear cut; perhaps I should have said that I believed there was some overlap between polyamory and prostitution? I'm glad you chipped in, anyway. Words can divide people but they can also...

I agree. But most importantly, I think we need to remember that prostitutes are -people-. The whole reason that this thread came into being is because I met a woman who identified as both a sex worker -and- polyamorous. For reasons that now appear rather obvious to me (the vitriol directed my...

From the Dance Mix 95 CD, which I bought when it was current... J.K. - You and I Memories of Love - Netzwerk

Lol :-) Awww :-)