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I also agree that envy, jealousy, territoriality etc., are different from situation to situation, and individual to individual. More important than the presence of these emotions though, is what we do with them. For myself, when I feel the beginnings of such negative emotions beginning to rear...

Honesty In my opinion, when it comes to polyamory, and most other things in life, honesty from the beginning is always the best policy. When my husband and I decided to open up to the poly lifestyle, we decided on a full disclosure agreement. It is something I recommend. Sometimes the truth...

Welcome Welcome to the forum Peter. I hope you learn a lot here. :)

Contained the voices of those who have gone before?

Sigh. I understand being oversensitive at that time. I get that way too. :-) unfortunately, if that is the way he worded it to her, she may well be expecting this to be a date with him, not a set up with his friend. Sometimes (and I DO NOT mean ALL guys here :-P ) some guys can say something...

The first thing you truly need to decide: Do you want to save your marriage for your kids' sake or because you still love your wife and want to be with her? Look deep into your heart and be sure before you answer that question. The road you must follow to save your marriage is long and can be...

How about, I am poly, so my heart is big enough to love more than one person, and I am secure enough to admit it. :D At least that is my version of poly.

The pros and cons of coming out of the closet... as I see it Coming out of the closet can be a frightening, nerve-wracking thing. In my own personal circle of family and friends (not my husband's, not his girfriend's), there is truly only one person I worry about finding out, not because I...

Poly-swinger-etcetc It seems to me that what all this amounts to is acceptance of "each to their own" and respect of the views and comfort levels of those around us. One might be poly and like to get their butt whupped (or vice versa) or one might be poly and like to experience/experiment with...

Communication Communication can be difficult, though it is one of the most important things in any relationship. Sometimes, when we try to explain or express something to someone, we may not have the words. Other times, the other person may not be ready, able, or willing to understand. How...

Can Polynerdist's ideal relationship exist and work? Most emphatically, yes! But all involved must make the effort.

:) How could I do less, my love? :) Your happiness brings me happiness, and just as you have accepted me for who I am, I accept you for who you are and who you love. I accept you and love you without judgement, without anger, but definitely with some teasing. :p