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This is why I think the assertion above by serialmonogamiest that we're all human and our bodies work the same is just not true (including all the resaons already listed by Tonberry). As a species, we aren't slaves to instinct. For me, polyamory is more like my sexual orientation -- both are...

Sage -- we actually did change some boundaries over the years for those reasons. At first we said no relationships/sex in our circle of mutual friends, but it wasn't realistic for us. Right now, what we have is very minimal and is the basic that I need in the relationship. After talking, it...

Yep, too many times. I haven't seen him since it happened, but will tonight. That's why I came here wondering how others have handled these things. He has made some changes -- he's now honest right after he breaks our boundaries. So, the lying is gone. But, stopping the cheating hasn't...

Minxxa, thanks for your thoughtful response. Part of what is going on is that I feel so alone in this. As all of you here know, often talking to non-poly people results in "well, what did you expect with your type of relationship." Perhaps one issue, aside from him needing to figure out...

How have people dealt with issues of cheating/betrayal? Hi folks, I'm new to this forum, posted an introduction in that area. I found the forum looking around for advice on how to do deal with issues of recurring cheating in LT poly relationships. I have an almost 20-year relationship that...

Hello folks! Well, sadly, I found myself here searching the forum because of a problem of cheating has again cropped up in my relationship. I know this is the intro area though, so some info about me. I'm a woman who's gone from identifying over the years as straight-lesbian-bisexual to...