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Hi, i just thought I would leave you a note, and see if you wanted to talk more about the chronic illness/relationship topic we were discussing in your thread? Feel free to drop me a PM or leave me a note or something if it's a conversation you'd want to pursue. Thanks!

Honesty is a great policy, but sadly, reality doesn't always reward it. People who are chronically ill can, at times, have difficulty dealing with yet another burden. Being reminded that their partner has sexual needs which are going unmet can make the ill partner feel pressured, guilty, sad...

Hi, Just wanted to let you know you're not the only one on here in this boat. My girlfriend has chronic health problems, no diagnosis in sight, just more symptoms every month. We're coming up on two and a half years of celibacy due to her health issues, and the other side effects that come up...

I am in a non-sexual primary relationship, due to the chronic illness of my girlfriend. Things went downhill sexually when she was at her most ill, and although she now has periods of remission where it would be theoretically possible, it just doesn't happen. I think that although we consider...

Old thread, new question I'm curious if anyone here has turned to polyamory as a way to cope with the end of a physical relationship between partners due to the chronic illness of one of the people. I'm wondering how it might have worked out, if so? I'm specifically talking about a couple who...

I have no doubt that there are many kind and helpful people here, willing to donate their time and expertise to help newbies. I have been lucky enough to talk with some of them. I also know the world is too full of self-entitled douchecanoes, wanting only what they want when they want it, and...

I can only speak from my own experiences, but yes, I have felt an aspect of control, or limitation, comes into play. I have had two relationships devolve into platonic friendships, each time due to the health issues of the other person. There was an unstated demand that if they were no longer...

Pixi, Just wanted to say I'm sorry to hear of the problems with your neighbors, as one farmer to another. Sometimes it makes me wonder--if everything turned sideways in the world, who would be a greater community asset--your farm, producing vital, local and accessable food to sustain life, or...

Dirtclustit, I've never heard anyone use the term hyper-respectful before, and I'm curious. Can you maybe explain how it would be done in a hypothetical conversation, or something? I don't want to hijack the thread, maybe it should be a new thread? My partner and I have very different levels of...

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Galagirl, I have come to believe you are a genius. :D

Scribbling on your wall, I'm the first....how galling for you, my fine fellow!!!

Basically I agree with everything that you said. But I think a good hard look at our society will give some clues. In America, the first thing a woman will be judged on is how she looks, her perceived "sex appeal" and her ability to attract men. Read the covers at the magazines at every...

Thank you, LR. A PM has been sent, and I appreciate any insight you might have.

Thank you so much. I will PM you and be grateful for any thoughts you might have.

This makes me want to ask you a question. In all of your time here, how often have you read about a situation that you have never heard of before, one that makes you think "Holy cow, *this* is something different! No idea what might happen here."? I have searched the archives until my eyeballs...

I once dated a man who for 3 years smelled like heaven to me. Then one day he smelled different. Not bad, just different. I mentioned it to him, and he looked uncomfortable. Shortly afterward, he broke up with me. No idea what that means on a physical level, but my nose knew before my mind did.

Hi doxyflower, What you wrote really struck a chord with me. I don't want to be overly nosy, but if you felt okay with it, could you maybe expand on your thoughts above? You managed to put into words something I have been struggling with for quite a while now, and I'd love a chance to talk to...

Welcome, and I just wanted to say your user name is about the most awesome ever. :-)

Hypersceptic, I have no words of wisdom, but I did want to comment that I love your writing, and your way of expressing yourself. I imagine you are a truly inspiring teacher. I'm looking forward to reading more. Best wishes!