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I SHOULD UPDATE MOUR So! Had a lot of schoolwork, oh how i hate being in school, but that is a rant for another day. Anyways! Things are going really well over here! Been on a couple dates with G, and it was really really nice~! We had our first kissy face time on Thursday! That was fun, hehe...

Yeah, my metamour showed me that the other day.

I'm a Metamour now! Also, brain why you keep being stupid? So my girlfriend got her love interest, whom I shall call Lyra, an adorable little pink elephant and wrote her a heartfelt letter and they are dating now!! It's so cuuuuttteee <3 <3 I'm super happy for them! :D Buuuuttt what sucks is...

SO I THINK IT'S A YAY?? Well, so Monday was sitting in the NRE (that's Nuclear and Radiogical Engineering NRE for you guys XD) computer lab, and he usually hangs out there a lot and we were being awkward an eventually I kinda just threw the letter in his direction and than ran out and hid for a...

Yes, I am going to keep this letter forever, and I have a suspicion he will too XD I'll update my blogy thingy later today, I was gonna wait till we actually go on an official date, but he's away for a week, so I prolly should update it before that. Blog updated!! oh! Also my girlfriend copied...

I ended up giving him the letter yesterday. I have serious issues when trying to talk about important things (like I go mute DX ) so I didn't want to risk miscommunication because it does take a lot of explaining >_< He wrote me a letter back too XD and then we talked about everything more...

My girlfriend says that she read somewhere that they can now make an egg cell out of a sperm cell and vise versa, so maybe you could take one, make it the egg, and fertilize it with the other?

IT'S D-DAY Gotta tell the boy how I feels, and that I'm poly D: Really really hope everything goes over well... I really ADORE the mess out of this guy ): Also, grad students are awesome!!! Why didn't I hang out more with them before?

I'm miserable at talking face to face about feelings, so I'm writing a boy I've been 'talking' with a letter to explain my feels and the fact that I'm poly. I feel like it will work out alright, but I'm really really nervous about it. I'm still new to this, so I'm not sure how best to explain...

I'm kinda hoping polyamory will be a solution to me wanting to have kids. Girlfriend doesn't want to have kids ever (and can't anyways), but I do want to have a husband one day, as well as her, so maybe I can have kids with that fellow? :D Then she won't have to be a mommy, and I get to be a...

I see... it seems like a lot of people are more using the tiers as sort of ways of describing what state their relationship with a person is in, instead of picking a state and putting a person in that position. I'd really misunderstood it before, I guess the word 'Heirachy' just has bad...

I think telling them after the date was pretty upfront... And no that wasn't what I wanted to hear. I wanted/want to know how to comfort her after she's been rejected for something that's an essential part of her identity; Honestly I probably should have left out the trans part because it seems...

See, but I can't do that because that would make too much sense XP I will do that then! thanks =D

Okay! So, there's something I just don't quite get with a lot of poly relationships. What's with this having heirachy and ranking in people you love? Now I'm just going to be frank, and I honestly want to understand the other side of this, so please don't be offended, but to me the whole...

I stated that not all relationships are sexual =P My main issue with your statements is that you are looking at trans as being some sort of lifestyle choice; It's not a lifestyle choice, it's a matter of identity! And it's not like these people are really going "Oh hey, I think a penis is...

Oh, pft, didn't know you can't edit after a while XD But anyways! So that I have them listed somewhere, here are my Three Rules of being Poly. These rules are what I hold the people I date too, and myself: Keep Me Informed Be Safe Don't sleep with anyone you don't love Course, I"m not going...

THE HAPS TODAY EEEE YOU GUYS I'm going to Friday Night Magic with Gadiel and a few other cool grad students and it's gonna be so much fuuunnn eeee!! :D

*cough* Gender identity != (that's the does not equal for the non-coders XD) physical sex/genitals *cough* Anyway, on the subject of whether or not she should tell people, I think it's like any other part of yourself-- you should be able to be 100% yourself with someone you truly love, but I...

Heh, the personal stories mentioned actually sound pretty in line with coming out to people about my girlfriend transitioning; Honestly, that gives me hope, because in general people have been very understanding. I guess I'm mostly worried about telling people I'm interested in. I tend to like...

THE HAPS So what's going on today? Well at the moment I am just dating one wonderful lady... but there seems to be something blooming with a cute boy who I shall name Gadiel ;D I'm pretty sure he's liked me for a while, but I only had a small amount of returned feelings, so I didn't pursue it...