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Cindie, we are slowing the fuck down, lol. We both have interests (platonic friends and other activities) that we are pursuing. We've had the talk about having friends first, and seeing how things go. We're not actively "seeking" anyone out, but sometimes things just develop, and we're not going...

Oh my, yes, so true! :D Thank you again, it's truly helpful :D

So true JaneQ! I hadn't really thought about that...if I attempt to limit what "may" happen, then I can very well miss the opportunity. I think I am worried about bringing in someone else, and how it will affect Storm. But then, he could very well find another and bring her in ;) I think I need...

Thank you Cindie! Last night as I was heading for bed (he wanted to stay up and play WoW, I had a tooth ache, so early night for me), I told him I had posted on here if he wanted to read it and see if there is more we needed to talk about. Turns out he had wanted to talk about it all night, but...

So. this week has been one massive, interesting, annoying, satisfying and confusing week. Storm has let me know that he is NOT ok with poly. At least that is what I think he said. He's not outright said if he has an issue with it or not. He worries that I will neglect him, so for now I've...

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Being their anniversary, perhaps arrange a time afterwards, so they can have a nice day without worry? As for outlining things, best to write down all of your needs, wants and limitations. Each of you need to clearly explain everything. Writing it down makes it easier to come back to and...

This! So true! What should be obvious, isn't to most people. Maybe she needs it said and or written down, so she understands that is what you want. Regardless, this is uncool :(

Well, things came to head tonight. Music broke my #1 Rule: You have NO RIGHT to demand I leave Storm. Even if things get bumpy with he and I, we are married and NO ONE has the right to tell me what to do. Thus, Music is no more. Oh well, I'm actually not very bummed by it. Says a lot :p

Well, Petal has all but stopped talking to me. She won't respond to me when we're in group chat, nor to anything I post on FB. I am thinking maybe I should remove her from FB or something, because it's weird being ignored like this. After spending 2 hours chatting with Music on Skype, he...

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Been a long few days. Some good some not so good. Today I kind of fell apart, realizing I don't have a whole lot of support. My mum seems to think I am going to run off with my boyfriend (was S, now calling him Music). Turns out my dad (step dad)'s parents were poly and in a quad relationship...

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I have love feelings for many people. I tell them I love them, and it's a different love than I have for Storm. For me, I'm in Love with Storm, and have love feelings for others. Once I know, after enough time out of NRE, that I am in Love with someone, then I will say, I'm In Love With You. Of...

It's a flag for me, but I go case by case. I have my own shit to deal with, Storm has his own shit to deal with. We as a couple need to be aware of how we react to each other, etc. For anyone new, it depends on how they cope. If they are responsible for their own actions and behaviors, then I...

Sorry about that, I tend to forget those things :o Yeah, just need to work through this all and hopefully come out the other end unscathed.

I made a big ass mistake last night, talking about a fantasy-type scenario with S, while G was watching. G took it as fact and it resulted in a big blow out, followed by tears and cuddling and holding each other in bed. I feel like shit for letting him see that. From now on, no more reading my...