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I would never have thought of using this! That is awesome, I have so many allergies to the crap in many lubes, haha! Thanks for sharing, I will try this :D

Thank you :) It's one thing we've always been, very open and honest. Sometimes we forget and that leads to us blowing off steam and having hours long conversations. We're truly best friends first and lovers second. That sounds odd, haha! That said, we are new to being openly poly. 6 years ago...

I actually never thought about that. Hubby and I agreed to let me date who I want, and he date who he wants. Just makes sense to us. Restricting ourselves because someone is fearful is just nurturing that fear. It may not be all that comfortable in the beginning, but the positives outweigh the...

See, a few years ago, I had the worst insecurity. It took counselling and a lot of honest talks with hubby to really get it through my head that all the things I was afraid of, were not *my* issues, but my parents.' I had to come to terms and understand that what my parents did, does not dictate...

My own preference right now, is that there are no triads here. I want my own relationship to develop on it's own, and hubby's to develop on it's own. We can be friends, I want that actually. I just don't want the complications that come with more than that.

I think envy is definitely a better term for it. I wouldn't want to limit my husband to a relationship with me only, so envy fits it better. Thanks!

Very interesting point! I would never have thought of it that way :)

Hubby and I have been discussing this for 6 years now. Together for 10. The first time we tried anything, we were "Unicorn Hunters", and it failed miserably. Resulted in a lot of hurt feelings and tension. Now, we've discussed openly and honestly, and we both feel we have been poly all along. We...

OMGosh! That is exactly how I see it myself. :D I am so glad to read this. It makes so much sense. Thank you for posting, it has truly helped me. I know this is my first post, but I've been lurking for a while now. This makes tremendous sense to me and I will be sharing it with my SO.