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I'm quite new to poly and I'm in a vee which will never be a triad. So our situations are very different. But the couple I'm involved with have been poly for many years and have had a number of different kinds of relationships outside their marriage. They have remained stable and made it work...

"I've been out of highschool for too many years for these types of games." Yeah. You nailed the dynamic! IMHO, some social groups develop touchstone beliefs which are used as social glue. Affirmation of the touchstone belief is seen as the measure of each individual's buy-in to the group...

Hey, 7 years of accepting that non-monogamous behavior equals cheating is a long time. To me -- and mind you, I'm only a few months into a poly relationship -- even though I am non-jealous and anti-possessive on my end my subconscious still kicks up and worries about how she will feel when I go...

Nobody should be deriding you for anything, man. You're gutsy for coming out with your worries. If you guys are doing separate things, that is, not a threesome, and not her-and-him with you watching, then it might be considerate for her to keep the details to herself. That depends on how your...

Hello, I'm Don. Eugene, Oregon; 54 year old. I'm "dating" (silly word) a woman who's in a very stable and beautiful polyamorous marriage. I adore her, I like and admire her husband, and we have a strong relationship emotionally, intellectually, and physically. We could never live together -- our...