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Thanks Snowmelt! More good advice! You guys are awesome, I'm learning so much. I feel more confident now. Nice to have support. And I'll be more open to criticism. I'm overly sensitive. Not good being a sulky panda haha. Thanks Snowmelt and everyone! (almost brave) Panda <3

Thanks GalaGirl. That makes a lot of sense to me. I'm going to follow your advice. I believe in total honesty and full disclosure. Even if it hurts. I will be truthful with Cat, and I will ask her to be truthful with me. If she doesn't feel that she can be 100% truthful with me then our...

I found out how to search tags. Thank you Red Pepper. Right now it is mind boggling. I'm not going to be able to read much before Cat comes here. I'm at work. Reading & writing on my iPad. You know, the more I read about polyamory the more I think that Cat should also read up on it. From...

Thank you. I will try and find out how to search tags. I'm not experienced with message boards. Don't even know what tags are! :o

Oh, and about Cat insisting on coming here, even though I suggested we hold off until we had things all out in the open and could decide if we are meant to even be in a romantic relationship, it's ok with me now. I'm an old soul. I can deal with her being here for the weekend even if we split...

You guys are pretty awesome I'm back. There has been a lot for me to think about. I'm a thinker. Sometimes an over-thinker. I try to anticipate situations before they happen. Not a good thing when it comes to relationships. This is my business brain. Business brain and anticipating all...

Musical Rose you are so nice it is making me cry. I am taking a break from talking on here for a bit tho because I think I'm coming across as an incredibly disrespectful jerk in some people's eyes and that's not who I am but I think I word stuff wrong and have been "thinking in text" and just...

Sneacail I'm really hurt by you calling me incredibly disrespectful. You don't know me. I'm not ever disrespectful of anyone. I just have blurt-itis and say stuff without thinking. I mean no disrespect to my gf. But she talks about "toyboys" and has even called me her boy-toy or toyboy or...

Thank you YouAreHere. The reason why I started wondering today if my GF is attracted to my money is because she's unemployed, lives with grandma and hates it, has never had anyone spend money on her and now she has me, I take her out for fine dining, give her money and buy her things. That...

Thank you so much Wow, I'm so thankful to you lovely people for responding and helping me. As a person who isn't poly I didn't know what to expect coming to a poly forum, if people would tell me to just try it and I might like it or what, but I want to say that you have made me feel welcome and...

Thank you Musical Rose. I guess she thought that since I said I was fine with Pansexuality that I meant I was fine with everything else. When I asked her what pansexuality was she only told me that it means she can love men or women. I thought it was kinda like being bi, and then I looked it up...

oh, and I did search around for other posts about situations like mine but I couldn't find any. :(

Thank you for your reply Sneacali. I see that I didn't explain myself well at all in the first statement you mention. What I mean is that I would hope that the person with whom I choose to be intimate with would want the same sort of relationship that I do, that we would be committed and...

Thank you Musical Rose. Yes, I did not understand what pansexual or polyamory was so when I said ok I didn't know what I was saying ok to. But I really thought from what she said that she and the other girl were in the past. I thought that she and I were now a couple. Now from what she says to...

Hello, I have some serious questions that I hope you can help me with. I am a straight 20 year old guy. I met my girlfriend through a mutual friend. When I started to have feelings for this girl I asked her if she was seeing anyone. She told me that she was not but that she was pansexual...