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Ugh. He is unavailable to speak right now, but through texting he explained to me that he broke it off with her two days after going to LA. They are trying to be friends and make the best of it in the meantime. So, I think they are intimate, but changing the nature of the relationship. I don't...

Update Well, he has been gone for almost a week, and I am not doing so well. I come back and read this thread daily and consider it from multiple perspectives. I get very angry, and do not want to talk with him for fear of my wrath spilling over onto him. If I am unhappy, I need to talk to him...

Hello, Thank you for your response. Yes, I do feel like I bit off more than I could chew and deal with. From that perspective, the cynicism does make sense. I guess time will help alleviate that pain. I agree, I do feel like it was moving too fast. Thank you for your thoughts. This has been a...

Thank you very much for the well wishes. I am definitely going to be around and reading the forums and will absolutely keep and update going with what is happening in our lives. Thank you again!

update We had a long conversation when he landed in LA. We talked a lot about this. I said I could not do this anymore. For the sake of our marriage, we need to grow strong and grow together, and when we are stronger, take on our relationships with other people. He was very caring and...

:) Thank you. No immediate danger. A-OK. Not leaving, for sure!

Hello. Thank you for the introduction and support. It's greatly appreciated. It's a lot to think about. I do not wish to make any hasty decisions, and everything everyone has said today will rest heavily on my mind. Thank you for your time.

Hmm... I'll have to think on that. Thank you. That is sound advice.

Hello, and thank you for more responses! I will try and acquire a hobby in the interim. I really appreciate the support.

Hi Ceoli, Thank you for your response. We are now open to renegotiating our monoamory, and creating space for other partners. I noticed his ongoing interest in her, and decided to initiate the conversation to open up our marriage. We have been having an ongoing discussion since August. He has...

Thank you. In my mind I have been thinking the same thing that you mentioned. Either I allow him to do it, or he is going to anyhow. Its difficult. That is correct. We agreed to be monogamous at the beginning of our relationship. That was laid out crystal clear. Re: Christmas, I realized I did...

Thank you. I appreciate the suggestion. I will work on that and see what happens. Thank you YGirl.

Hello, Thank you for your response. That is a good question. To clarify, yes, the new partner was discussed between the two of us. I expressed an open mind, but could not guarantee how I would respond, other than that I would try. I have written him my boundaries of things I am and am not...

Hello, This is going to be a long post. First and foremost, I very much appreciate you taking the time to read this. I would like to ask your opinion or thoughts on my current situation. I am open-minded. History My husband and I have been together for 6 years, coming up on being married for 2...